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Girl who wants to stay friends


Question Posted Thursday September 14 2006, 10:47 pm

I like this girl soooooo much. All these other girls tell me that the girl that i like also likes me back. But one time when i confronted her about this she said the whole i just want to stay friends thing. I decided im not giving up. I like her so much but it killed me when she said i just want to stay friends. how do i get around to her and show her how great of a boy friend i could be? I really dont want to just stay friends, so is there anything to help me get out of the friends zone and get her to love me the way i love her without showing it too much?

Shes well worth it

Thanks, (14,m)


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luvin_chick<3 answered Saturday September 16 2006, 12:18 am:
i'm actually experiencing this with a friend of mine who's a boy. what i would advice is for you to stay friends for now. anything can happen in the future. so if she's worth the wait, then that's all you can do. sometimes, during this kinds of situation, one of the people are scared of losing the relationship they already have, so they'll just stay the way they are. i'm feeling a little bit of both. i kinda like the guy, but i wouldn't wanna ruin our friendship. i don't know if he likes me or not, but, like i told my friend, if he asks me out, i would say yes. just hang in there!
if you need anything else, feel free to ask me. i'll be here!

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xxangelface92xx answered Friday September 15 2006, 9:57 pm:
i'd tell her how i feel and just be there for her maybe she doesnt wanna be friends she could have just said that because the truth scared her too much and if not stay close friends dont give it up for nothing i'd do anything to get back the friendship i lost!
<33 mary!

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SnapItsJen answered Friday September 15 2006, 8:32 pm:
Hey hun, if I were you I'd sit her down and just talk to her. If she means that much to you invite her over and talk to her. Always express your feelings for a girl and what they love the most is roses and teddy bears. Good luck.

Jen

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9dayz answered Friday September 15 2006, 3:54 pm:
if you become his closest friend, you are the only one who knows her personally! You know her better than anyone else does! but if you become her boyfriend, she will hide something from you! Slowly, but sure her heart will fall upon you, because she knew that you are the only one who knows her better than anyone else! you perfectly understand about what she wants!As a man you must make your targetted girl feel the comfort when she is hanging out with you. hopefully my advice can help you!

P.S I had the same problem too but a year ago i already broke up wuth mygirl after we are going out for a year!

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evil-devil12 answered Friday September 15 2006, 12:42 pm:
hhmm thats tough but first: maby it's better for you to stay friends bacause maby you're gonna brake up one day and than it's really hard to be friends so after that you pretty much hate eachother. i dont think thats gonna happen between you but you never know....
sooo to show her how grreeaat you can be just be there for her. like when she fights with her friends tell her that you will always be there for her no matter what the others say. help her in school when she does'nt get things in class. ask her how her day is or how she's doing. but if she has one of her "grumpy" days and she wants to be left alone just leave her alone. be trustfull and show her you understand her.
I hope things will work out =)

good luck

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DefinedEyes answered Friday September 15 2006, 7:02 am:
Well if she doesnt like you and when she tells you she wants to be friends. She really does want to be your friend, and nothing more.
Stop pushing and give up, because if you keep doing that, eventually she wont want to be friends at all anymore with you. Persistance isnt the answer all the time. The fact that she only sees you as a friend, nothings you can do or "show" her will change how she looks at you.
So take care.

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