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my mom doesnt understand me
i have a great relationship with my family, but my mom lately has been driving me absolutely crazy! Every day her and my dad come home in a not so good mood and same with my sister so i have to be happy even when ive had a bad day too. my sister and i do chores and ive been doing everything lately. i bring it up with my mom but she just gets ticked off and says my sister is struggling with school and all this other stuff. shes 19 and im 15 but we seem closer in age. She doesnt get that im working so hard to try to get all A's to make everyone happy, she keeps over looking it.I'm struggling in some of my PAP classes and i try not to talk about it because i dont like to complain about school. she says she understands how i think but i KNOW she doesnt. see, when i think, everything has to balance out, like a proportion in math. thats why she doesnt get me. its like my sister is going through alot right now, more than me, but im still having a difficult time in sooo many different ways its like a little kid carrying 15-20 pounds and an adult carrying like 30 or 40. the adult has more but the little kid is probably struggling too. she thinks just because my sister has more, things are harder for her than they are for me. she doesnt know what ive been through the last year of my life and itd difficult to talk about so i dont plan on cluing her in, but its nothing that i havent already taken care of. she thinks she knows me so well but really, im like a stranger living the life of someone she thinks she knows. how can i make her understand. im so frustrated i feel like crying!! thanks so much
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family is always frustrating at this age TRUST me i know little things start to bug you and school work its a lot to deal with for a person at such a young age yor parents dont know whats happening and im guessing that neither does your sister (they always try to do everything with the best intentions)if your having a bad day and you dont want your family bothering you i suggest telling them maybe it will change what they want to tell you or at least not bug you as much tell your sister too if she does bug you intentionally well then maybe she just mean :(
just tell them strahight up theres nothing better than that !!!
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