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cheater?
do you believe "once a cheater always a cheater" ?
why or why not?
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yes and no. i believe that once a guy cheats he's probablly gonna do it again but it's not like for sure. i think that it depends on the girl/boy he/she is with and how much they like them. like the girl said b4 i do believe that a cheater doesn't deserve a second chance. but truthfully it's just in the persons own experience i suppose.
-KikiJ
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Well i dont believe "once a cheater always a cheater" but i do believe that if someone cheats on you, they dont deserve another chance. Even if they say that they love you oh-so-much afterwards, they obviously didnt think about you when they cheated. I hope this helped and all goes well. :]
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Well it does happen. As everyone said it depends on the person. People change and others don't.
I believe that it's hard to trust someone again when they've cheated on you! That's why even though the cheater doesn't cheat again its still hard to forget what he/she has done. If they cheated on you it creats an assumption that they're capable of doing it again. That's why its hard to fully trust them again.
Dunno if that helped, hope it did! Take care, if you need anything else ask away! =) <3
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Honestly, it all depends on the person. For the most part, I believe it's true. Atleast in the short term. Someone who usually cheats in the first place lacks respect for the other (& is selfish in my eyes). If they were given the second chance, chances are they will do it again. For someone to change overnight is very slim. On the other hand, I do believe people can change months down the road. Cheating may have been something they did 2 years ago, but something they'd never think about doing again.
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I don't.
I think that a person may just not be in their right state of mind.
I cheated on my boyfriend 5 months ago, I kissed another guy while I was completely hammered.
So in some instances I think that a once of is okay. but only once. And the person has to feel sorry. I cried for an hour, and I felt terrible.
However if I did it again, (which I would never) I wouldn't expect him to take me back again.
if a person is in their right state of mind and cheats on a continuing basis I would believe that this person will always be a cheater.
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It can go both ways.
First I say yes, because some of the people who would cheat on the first place lack some of the morals that would prevent them from doing it a second time, and therefore, are likely to do it all over again.
BUT -- I also say no, because there are many people who cheat on someone, but after a while they are filled with so much remorse that they never want to do it again.
It really depends on the person.
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It depends on the person. After some people cheat they are truly sorry and feel so guilty for what they done, and would never ever consider doing it again. Sometimes it's just a complete and total mistake and thy know it. Some people never learn and make the same mistakes over and over again. If someone really loves you and they do cheat on you they usually feel so guilty about it, they're willing to do whatever it takes for you to trust them again and prove to you that they can be loyal. And they'll tell you, they wont wait for you to find out. Usually people who cheat multiple times or will, will try to hide it from you, keep it a secret because they have no regret. They just don't want you to know.
::Jasmine::
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