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does he like me or no?
Ok, well last weekend my band took a trip to san antonio and i hooked up with someone. i'm 14/f and a freshman and he's 17/m and a junior. On the bus ride home (about 5 hours) we sat together and shared a blanket, cuddled, held hands, leaned heads on each other, etc. And he did sit with another girl earlier on thr trip but he never acted like that with her. When it was dark I had my head in his lap and we started kissing and making out for the rest of the way home which was about 30ish minutes. It's been three days and he hasn't really taked to me much. He's in my first period class and lunch. He kind of talks to me during first period but only noticed me once in lunch. And after school I'll be standing in the hall and he walks right past me without even looking at me. I like him, but I don't know if he likes me because it's not really seeming that way right now. And I don't to be the naive little freshman who thinks there's a relationsihp there that's really not and follow him around and be annoying. Several of my friends have told me just to forget about him and find someone else, and believe me, I've tried, but for some reason I just can't. But does anyone think that he might like me? And if it doesn't seem that way how can I forget about him? Thanks!!
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well call me crazy but i think he likes you but you do need to take it step by step talk to him more as friends then bring something up but that trip and if he doesnt its not the end of the world as for you not being able to get him out of your head i understand ive liked the same guy for about a year and a half and what u do is just deal with it go day by day it gets better good luck with everything!!!!!
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hun i don't think so. i mean it was kinda the same thing with me and this guy i was 13 and he was 16 and we did some stupid things and at first i thought relationship!! but no...more like one nght stand. i was that naive little girl that thought we were real. at least until his friend confronted me with the truth. you can't imagine how long i cried for and yea my friends told me to get over him find someone new all that stuff. but i couldn't for a while. i rejected every guy that would ask me out and that's not a good thing so don't do that. take chances cuz that guy probably wasn't worth it hun. and if he is he'll come back to you in life but for you not your body.
like the saying a true kiss is one with the heart not the lips. i know that it might be hard for you but you know what i know you're gonna get over him and it may take a while because i'm not really sure how to get over a guy just like that besides finding something to get your mind off of him.
hope i helped
-KikiJ
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Well you see that's what happened when you hook up with Juniors that you don't even really know! His idea was probably just to bang you and leave you! You need to have some respect for yourself and don't hook up with every hot guy you meet. I'm not trying to be rude but you were just looking for trouble when you hooked up with him. If he walks right past you he's either shy or doesn't like you. He's obviously not shy because he got you to hook up with him. YOU need to go up to him and find out what's going on. Either start a conversation or ask him on a date. Or try texting or call him. You can't wait around trying to figure how he feels about you. Just find it out fast and either call, text or talk to him in person so you'll know. Just don't hook up with any more Juniors that you don't really know. Because this goes to show that boys will hook up with anyone even if they don't like that person. But I don't know him in person so I won't judge him but you know him so YOU have to decide, not me.
Have a nice day. =)
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To be honest it seems to me that no, he doesn't feel about you the way you feel about him. Judging by the way he's been acting I'd say it was just a one off thing (maybe a bit of fun) for him or something? I wouldn't put it past that considering his age as well as the way he's acting with you now/afterwards.
I think you're friends are right - just move on. Waiting around for him in this way isn't healthy and if I'm right you will come across as more of someone who's desperate than anything else (which I'm sure is something you don't want). If you like him then you could try tell him that but I just think they way he's been acting so far (if he really did like you he's have put a lot more effort in which he hasn't) I don't know if I can say he does feel that way about you and think you may deserve at least better than that.
You can never forget about someone because it's just not that easy to do and if I could tell you how you can forget about him - believe me I'd be a God! And extremely rich having a solution like that. ;] Forgetting him will just take time but as your friends said - find someone else or at least don't block out the possibility of finding someone else. There are a LOT of guys out there and you can always find someone better - always. I think you at least deserve someone decent and so far he doesn't seem to be up to scratch when it comes to be deserving of someone like you.
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