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Virginity


Question Posted Tuesday March 20 2007, 7:22 pm

I'm not planning on having sex the first time for a couple years or so atleast but I'm afraid I will end up regretting it later on. I'm just curious about the average age girls lose their virginity.

So basically I have three questions..

1. What age did you lose your virginity?

2. Do you regret it or are you happy with your choice?

3. What age do you suggest? (Please don't say when you're ready because obviously I'm going to wait until I'm ready but I'm talking like what's too young, etc.)

Thanks

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KikiJ answered Thursday March 22 2007, 8:37 am:
k well i guess i have the youngest age on here
i was 13

do i regret it? no but i do regret who i did it with because he just used me

u should wait until ur married and all but hey told myselfi was gonna wait and look wat happened. i did it at a yong age and in my idea of all this you should wait until your married or at least leagal (meaning 18)

but be careful of STDs and all of that use protection and all k?

=]

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fabiosparrow193 answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 5:51 pm:
If you believe in God and follow the Bible and the Commandments you shudnt lose your virginity until your married! sry but its a MAJOR sin to have sex before your married! cause when your married you no its the right one!! so if you want to the godly thing wait until your married!! that goes for everyone! (sry tho if thats not what you wanted or if you don't beleive in God, im sry)

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xoiiloveyou143xo answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 12:31 pm:
1-I was 17.

2-I kind of wish I would have waited because I realize now that I didn't love the guy and now I'm with a guy who I do love and I wish I could have lost my virginity w/ him.

3-I would say no earlier than 16.

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orphans answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 12:05 pm:
1. I lost my virginity when I was at the age of 16, about to turn 17 the next month.

2. I don't regret it because I cared alot about the person I was doing that with and he made me feel comfortable about it. Yeah it kind of is uncomfortable but after you do it more then it starts to be totally worth it in my opinion. To some girls it is a hassle but to others it is one of the biggest joys out there.

3. I say to do it at an age where YOU are ready. don't do it to get your partner out of your hair about it. It should be a special connection between two people and if you think that about your relationship you can whenever you want.

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sugarplum07 answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 9:14 am:
1) I lost my virginity when I was 16.
2) I do not regret it. I had been dating my boyfriend for a very long time (we're still together actually) and we were ready.
3) 16 and up would be a good age to start, if you're ready of course. As long as you are smart about it, aka use a condom and birth control and really love the person you are with, I see nothing wrong with it. I don't think it's ok for a couple to start having sex after like a month of dating, you know what I mean? At least get to know the person a bit.

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cHaSsi3x answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 12:03 am:
1. i lost it when i was 14, almost 15.

2. i don't regret it, but wish i could have waited until i found the right person. i was not in love with the person i lost it it, it was kind of just a fling. so that's the part i regret.

3. i suggest anything around 18. sometimes starting out too young can lead to a lot of problems.

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soendearing answered Tuesday March 20 2007, 9:38 pm:
14 :/

I wouldn't say I regret it, but I think I definitely should have waited longer.

I would say about 17-18.

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NinjaNeer answered Tuesday March 20 2007, 9:28 pm:
1. I was 18 years old. I know that's comparatively pretty late, but I decided to wait until I was sure I was ready to deal with the consequences.

2. I'm perfectly fine with my choice. I have absolutely no regrets whatsoever.

3. I would definitely suggest 18+. You have to be old enough to deal with things if they go wrong (STD, pregnancy) and mature and educated enough to deal with things like taking care of yourself and birth control.

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StarryNightSkies answered Tuesday March 20 2007, 8:37 pm:
1. I just lost my virginity this passed weeked age 16 almost 17.

2. Right now I am happy with my choice although I do feel I kind of rushed into sex. But as of right now I have no regrets.

3. The statistical average age of girls losing their virginity are ages 14-15, for me I think that is a bit young. I just suggest around 17 or 18.

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christina answered Tuesday March 20 2007, 8:24 pm:
[1] I lost my virginity at 15 like maybe a month or so before I turned 16.

[2] Yeah. I kind of regret it. I mean, I'm not wih the guy now [we were when it happened], but I don't know.

[3] I suggest anything older than 17-18 years old. When you're anything under that, you're just not as ready as you think & then you end up regretting it.

Anything under 17-18 or older is too young.

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