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seriously help
me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year now his name is jared. Hes great our personalities go really good together and im 100% comfterable around him the one thing is im so bored with our relationship but i dont wanna end it cause i love him and i dont think i can act more myself around anyone else. i have this good friend Luke who ive been friends with for a while he has the best personality ever and hes tons of fun i kinda have a crush weve alwayse been kinda close the thing is that hes not as good looking as jared and hes big like a teddy bear lol. i think that if i dumped jared id regret it but if i stay i might be wasting time? idk what to do should i stay even though im bored or should i try new things?
help??
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no no no no dont break up with him. i was in the same exact situation. you will regret it. he will probably get mad at you and you might lose him completely. i would just wait it out for a little while. every relationship goes through rough patches. try to talk to him less/ see him less for a little while and then the next time you see him you will be more excited. try new things in your relationship. take it to the next step is what i guess im trying to say.
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talk to him tell him things like
*how come we dont do ....anymore
[hopefully hell get the hint]
work it out
if it doesnt
wait till you ask Luke out
dont just jump into another relationship...
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i hope i helped
keep it zen!
Nancy .Dot .Com™
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If you're bored with the relationship, don't try to make it work. You need to tell Jared how you feel about things. He'll understand [hopefully], but he isn't going to like what he's hearing. No matter how much what you're going to say might hurt him, he needs to hear it because you're not being fair.
If you end up deciding that breaking up is what's best for you, then you should try & see how things work out with Luke. If you decide to stay with Jared, you might need to try some new things with each other to keep it spicy.
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talk to jared if your so comfortable with him tell him how you feel dont hide it thats way worse if it was me id rather have my girlfriend tell me so i can fix it and if that didnt work well maybe i would take a break and see what you want and realize that jared is probably a really nice guy and isnt a jerk like all other guys
~Grkadvisor~
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