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never had a boyfriend
HI
Im 13 years old and have never had a bf. All my friends have and they have all had their first kiss i still havent . Im worried ill never get a boyfriend when i talked 2 my mate she said to try flirting more but i dont know how
please help
xx
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You shouldn't be worried about not having a boyfriend it isn't a big deal i'm 13 and haven't had a boyfriend either. A lot of my friends and me haven't had our first kisses either so don't worry about that either. You should just try hanging out with the guys you like, and don't be really flirty because some guys can take the completely wrong way. It is way better to have a bunch of guy friends just being yourself eventually someone will ask you out. Once you have a boyfriend though, they can become really jealous of other guys you hang out with a lot. My friend had a boyfriend who told her she couldn't hang out with some guys she had been friends with for a long time, and she didn't know what to do because she liked them both as friends and the one as a boyfriend. Make sure that whoever is your boyfriend doesn't care if you hang out with other guys, because that can become a big mess.
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I didn't have my first kiss til I have almost 20. It's really not a bad thing that you haven't at the age of 13. It's better than kissing everyone.
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Dont worry about it. You are probably at the stage where everyone is having a bf , but you are fine without one. when the time comes, you will find a very special boy who will be worth the wait! You will get your first kiss, everyone does!
dont worry!
Hope i helped=]
- Woahh
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listen i'm 16 and i've only had one boyfriend and i have never had my first kiss. beleive me you can wait....share it with someone really special. and the thing is not to flirt more. just be yourself.a guy likes natural girls. if you act yourself then there's a good chance that you'll get who you want.
heck i have five guys who asked me out...and all i did is act myself. and they're cute too!!
just be yourself...relax.
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ok, having a boyfriend is just like having a best friend, its like that kinda. But don't worry you will get a bf but you just have to be patient. The right guy will come looking for you. And don't worry about not having your first kiss yet because i havent either and im 13 to. I hope i helped =)
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I' 13 too. I have a bf, but i've never had my 1st kiss. Having a bf is nothing more but being a little more than friends. Haven't you ever considered maybe your friend are jumping into things? Don't like a guy to get a bf. That'd make you desperate. Only go for a guy you actually like. If a guy you dont't want to date asks you out, don't say yes. Just say no thanks, that'll make you look choosey, and guys will respect you more! Trust Me.
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theres nothing wrong with that. im nearly 16 and ive never had a boyfriend or a kiss. so just relax and enjoy it while it lasts. seriously.
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there is nothing wrong with you seriously. take this from someone who nows. im am literally just like you. im thirteen and i have the same issues. and i try not to get down on yourself. i know its a big challengelways thought something was wrong with me last year because i was 12 and i didnt have a boyfriend either. this was scary to read becuz this is exactly the same way i am. all of my friends have had boyfriends and most of them first kiss and i asked myself whats wrong with me and why cant i get a boyfriend. and i would cry (and sometimes still do) but i tell myself that nothing is wrong with me. i think God gives you a boyfriend when he thinks your ready.try not to get down on yourself. i know its a big challenge but work on it. when i flirt it kinda makes me feel better and really sometimes it does. you cant control what God has instore for you and hes just waiting for the right time. and i believe that everyone finds that one person including a first kiss and a boyfriend. it may not be now but i bet it will be when you least expect it. youll get one and i know i will too even though it seems like its impossible its really not. sometimes you just cant get yourself to believe that your pretty or that youll get a boyfreind but i think well both get one eventually and maybe not right now but its gotta be soon right. im trying this new thing where each morning i wake up and tell myself i am pretty and its working so try that. ok well i really hope i helped and email me anytime if you have anymore problems with this becuz i know exactly what your going through. feel free to email me at scdgirl288@yahoo.com hope you fell better and dont worry about it.
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just becuase your freinds have one doesnt mean u have to have one to. and the guys are 13 they dont know when a girl is flirting so in the long run its pointless. try to be there freind and then make your move. my freinds and i have alot of guyy freinds and its alot better than having a biyfrind becuas they can be possesive. just hang out with them and they'll probably end up liking you.
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Believe me, there's nothing wrong with you or anything. It's perfectly normal to be thirteen adn not have kissed anybody yet or dated. Really, I think kids are trying to become more and more mature as the years go on. There's kid out there who are like, 10 and are having sex. It's nuts.
You have a good, good while to get a boyfriend. Boyfriend or none, just have a great time with your friends and live life.
Plus, let me tell you something. I'm 15. I've had a few boyfriends.. all lasted, a week. Never been kissed. Nothing. So I'm practically in the same boat as you. And imagine the pressures with ME "You haven't kissed yet?" "You haven't had sex yet?" They'll get heavier, but trust me, you're going to want your first boyfriend and first kiss to be special, just like I do. Don't just date someone or kiss someone for the heck of it. That's not a very great, romantical story to tell.
Your friends right, though. Just try flirting more with guys and making yourself know. Have get togethers with friends and have their boyfriends i nvite their guy friends and talk to them and just have a great time, or hang out with your friends guy friends. You just got to get out there, show everyone how great you are, and then show your interest.
I hope I helped.
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There is nothing wrong with you!!! You shouldn't turn yourself into something else just so you can get a guy! Just wait you will get a boyfriend and a first kiss when the time is right.
Alli
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chick theres nothin wrong w/you
youll find a guy that likes you for who you are
not for bein flirtatious
or whatevr
but yeah if you want a guy that doesnt dig you
i suggest you flirt around !
or like jeez you have all your life to fall in love
roght now just like have fun
you dont need a guy to make you happy !
but whatever floats your boat !
*keep it zen
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Believe me, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you not having a boyfriend. It doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you. Some people don't have boyfriends until they're sixteen or older, and there isn't anything wrong with either.
Plus, you're only thirteen. You have your whole life ahead of you, and plenty of time for boyfriends. Just take your time, and don't rush into anything too fast. You will have your moment, and it will come when the time is right.
Flirting is fun, and if you do want to know ways to flirt, you can go here: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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Aww Hun dont worry, i didnt have a boyfriend until i was 18, haha and i know what your thinking, your probably some ugly chick or something lol, but im not just really shy! Haha,love will come your way when your ready for it. Its not all its that cracked up to be, but i know how you feel. That special guy your intrested in right now (thats right i know about him, hee hee) just start smiling more at him and talking and see how it goes, if it goes well invite him to a group outing and see how it goes! Hope I helped :D
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Don't worry about it. 13 is still a little young to be worried about never having a boyfriend :) It will happen when the time is right. No sense rushing things; then you just end up with a crappy boyfriend.
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