She cried tears of blood, until there wasn't a drop of blood left to cry, because the blood not only was being cried out, her slit wrists helped a little too. All of the pain she went through in the beginning, was just the end...
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i've been on the pill for almost a year.. and i got my period when im not supposed to. what does this mean? could it mean im pregnant?? (link)
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Ok, i'm going to make this short, but sweet. You are NOT pergnant. If you have your period, your not pregnant. You are WAY WAY too young to be on birth control and having sex, thats ridiculous. I hope you don't think you are "Mature" having sex at this age, because it is really immature!
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I'm dating this guy named Brandon. He's everything I ever needed in a boyfriend. He puts me before himself and we play these cute games that only we would understand. We sit under the stars late at night and look for shapes in the clouds. The only problem is that I don't feel sexually attracted to him at all. Yes, I know that sex isn't everything. When I have a boyfriend, I'm usually doing whatever I can to be with them, or to cuddle with them, but with Brandon, I push him away sometimes. If that makes sense?
One of mine and Brandon's friends (I'll call him Chris) told Brandon a few days ago that me and him don't seem like we could be more than friends. Chris is like a brother to me, so he knows me very well. That got Brandon thinking, and he almost decided to break up with me. In a way, I wouldn't have cared because I kinda feel that all we'll ever be is just friends. But another part of me doesn't want to lose him because he's the best boyfriend I'll probably ever have. He chose not to break up with me because he's liked me for a long time (at least 3 years) and he doesn't want to throw it all away.
If we ended up breaking up, I'd still consider him one of my best friends, and I know he'd do the same.
What should I do? Stay with him, or break up with him? If I break up with him, how should I do it? (link)
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It seems to me like you are better friends than boyfriend and girlfriend. Just break up with him genitally, tell him "I think we are better off being friends than being more", if he is a good friend, he'll understand. This is kind of funny, because, My boyfriend, Chris, has a friend named Brandon.
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Okay so theres this boy and he is real nice and all and I've been crushing on him forever and my friend was planning to tell him and if he finds out he will like me thats what always happens so I'm not sure if I should go through with this because he would give me is sweater and buy me candy and sit by me but the problem is that I'm shy I mean real shy and I know if we were together I shouldn't be so shy but I don't think thats me. What do I do? (link)
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Okay, here's the thing, If you don't want to go through with it than don't unless you really want to. It is your decision, not your friends. If you want to go out with him, than don't, if you do, ask him out yourself. If you really like him, you'll find it within yourself to ask him out, slowly build confidence. But, as soon as he finds a girl that like him, and he goes out with them makes him look kind of desperate. I hate desperate guys, they hate half the girls they date, but do nice things for them, and yet, they hate them. But, I guess you know more about him than me!
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im 14 and my boyfriend is 15. he's not a virgin, i am. the farthest ive been-making out.
should i be intimidated by this? im kind of scared. scared of wheather he'll think im a good kisser or not
and i always freeze up around him
because i feel scared.
i need some advice
how to give a handjob & blowjob
good making out tips[what bodyparts to touch & what to do while making out..not HOW to make out. ik thattt, just..other things like tips & stuff that'll make him want more ;)]
umm...
im not realy looking to have sex
HONESTLY
im smarter than that
i have goals for myself
but.
these are things every girl goes through
and im just lookikng for some help :)
thank you so very very much anyone.!! :D :D :D (link)
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If you are not ready to have sex, than don't. Most girls will date at least one guy thats not a virgin. Don't be intimidated unless you have to be. If he wants to, ask him if it's because he loves you or he just want to have sex so he can get what he wants and dump you in a day or two. Don't do anything you don't want to do, and if he dosen't respect that, then he's not worth being with.
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OKay there is this song its pretty old but i dont knwo what its called it goes
Im blue *if i was green i would die ,if i was green i would die *
*=thats what it sounds like they say
please tell me the name and the band?!?!?! (link)
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Lyrics for: Blue (Da Ba Dee)
Yo listen up,
Here's a story
About a little guy
That lives in the blue
And all day and all night
And everything he sees
Is just blue
Like him
Inside and outside
Blue his house
With the blue little window
And a blue Corvette
And everything is blue for him
And hisself and everybody around
'Cause he ain't got nobody to listen to
I'm blue
Da ba dee da ba di (x7)
I'm blue
Da ba dee da ba di (x7)
I have a blue house with a blue window
Blue is the color...of all that I wear
Blue is the streets and all the trees are blue
I have a girl friend
And she is so blue.
Blue are the people here that walk around
Blue like my Corvette, it's sitting outside
Blue are the words I say and what I think
Blue are the feelings that live inside me
I'm blue
Da ba dee da ba di (x7)
I'm blue
Da ba dee da ba di (x7)
Inside and outside
Blue his house
With the blue little window
And a blue Corvette
And everything is blue for him
And hisself and everybody around
'Cause he ain't got
Nobody to listen to
I'm blue
Da ba dee da ba di (x7)
I'm blue
Da ba dee da ba di (x7)
By:Eiffel 65
Album:Europop
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HI
Im 13 years old and have never had a bf. All my friends have and they have all had their first kiss i still havent . Im worried ill never get a boyfriend when i talked 2 my mate she said to try flirting more but i dont know how
please help
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I' 13 too. I have a bf, but i've never had my 1st kiss. Having a bf is nothing more but being a little more than friends. Haven't you ever considered maybe your friend are jumping into things? Don't like a guy to get a bf. That'd make you desperate. Only go for a guy you actually like. If a guy you dont't want to date asks you out, don't say yes. Just say no thanks, that'll make you look choosey, and guys will respect you more! Trust Me.
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well my boyfriend is a great guy. He loves his lady friends, they outnumber guys by far. Lately Ive been mad at him for being too friendly, now he is depressed and avoiding me. I am jealous because he has met them secretly or talked to them on the phone.He lied to me about it now it is hard to trust him. He said I shouldnt try to change the person he is and it is pushing him away. Should I just allow these phone calls and meetings to save us?What is he really thinking? (link)
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You shouldn't get so jealous. If he cared about you as being his girlfriend, he wont cheat on you. My bf has some friend that are girls, and i trust him to talk to them on the phone and hang out and stuff. I doubt he'll break up with you, just talk to him, instead of yelling. He'll Respect you, and care about hat you have to say, if he really cares. If he breaks up with you, don't take it out on yourself, it's is his loss!
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there was this guy that is a little scary that goes to my school. i found out that he liked me from a guy at school and that he was going to ask me out soon. during a volleyball practice he was waiting for me after i changed and i avoided him. for the next two days i avoided him. he ended up asking me out at lunch and i freaked and turned him down really harsh. it was awkward for about a month, but now he'S talking to me and i feel really bad about what i did. what should i say to him??? (link)
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If you just want to be friends with him, just tell him the truth! Be honest. Tell him you really didn't want to go out with him, but you'd love to be friends. For all you know, he could be a really great, life time friend! If he is nice, and really cares, he be cool with that. Good Luck!
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okay well im 13 years old and all of my firends have made out with a boy.. I never have... its really weird... my best friend since forever and I WERE the only ones who hadnt made out with a guy untill she went out with this kid joe... so now im the only one who hasnt... and everytime im going out with someone and the subject comes up i get really nervous... idk im just really scared to show affection... like I will hug my boyfriend without a problem but when it comes to holding hands and kissing im scared... i have been kissed but never made out... i know what to do but at the same time i dont please help me!
Kati (link)
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You are showing maturity by waiting and making rational decisions. It's not that great to make out with a boy. I haven't but all my friend have, but they all tell me not to because it makes your mouth really dry. It's just abnoxious.
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I was wondering if anyone knew anything about depression, or manic depressive disorder, or what not.
I just recently started thinking i might be have depression, or some other mental disorder. After looking it up online, I think I might.
my mom takes medication, but i never knew what for, and when i asked my dad he said it was so she could "cope with life". So i'm pretty sure she has depression. And i was reading that it might be genetic.
Anyways, what i want to know is what do i do about it?
ive always wondered if I should go to a therapist just because i always have trouble dealing with my emotions.
and after looking it up, i think i might be bipolar or depressed.
I dont wanna say anything to my parents, because... i dont know. I guess its just that i'm their "good child" both my brothers are kinda bad, and i'm the ""perfect"" one that gets good grades, and doesnt have problems and things like that.
There really aren't any other adults in my life that i trust. and my friends, well i dont think i would want to tell anyone this really.
so, yea. i'm just not sure what to do. or if i should just ignore it.
i'm not thinking about sucicide or anything. so thats not an issue.
Sorry this is SO long... (link)
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It is genetic. My mom has it, now i have it. I'm on anti-depressant. I Hate It! Bipolar, unstable emotions. Do you feel depressed or Just really emotional? Just a hunch, you coul'd be going through puberty, depending on age.
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so okay, i cut. and well i dont see anything wrong with that. i mean its not like its that serious. its just like getting a tattoo. or getting a peircing so why is it so "bad". people always say dont do it blah blah blah. its not hurting them so why should they care? i just dont get why its like considered so "bad" doing drugs and drinking is a wholee lot worse. so does anyone know why people think its so bad? any other opinions?
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I cut myself. I have depression. I hate it when people just do it to do it. Do you have depression? Issomething upsetting you? Do you hate yourself(that's my reason)? Cutting yourself really is bad. It is a way of punishing yourself for something that may not be your fault or something as minor as spilling milk in the cafeteria. It can be a way of killing yourself. It's a horrible habbit to get into, so while you can, get out of it! Trust me, it's for the better.
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How do you report somebody from AIM?
and can the police trace screen names? (link)
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Yes the police can track screenames. Tell your parents. If you are getting harrased online, the cops are trying to get these crazy people in jail, so most likely they will do something about it.
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im a guy and im 17, im not really into sports, but half the guys i know are..why can't i get interested? (link)
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Every one Has Diffrent Interests. As Far As I Know, you don't like sports. What are you into? Stick with what you do like and don't try to be something your not! Just be yourself!
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i have a chubby stomach and i want it to get flatter very soon..so what are some foods that would make my stomach get flat or what are some foods to aviod in order for my stomach to get flat? (link)
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Don't over eat, like junk food, and stuff with a lot of grease, such as bacon. Stay awat from food with a lot af fat in them. But, most importantly, eat healthy! Mind your veggies and Fruits.
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My boyfriend is getting the magazine Maxim or whatever. I've seen it but it always has pretty ladies on it. I dont want him looking at like a magazine that contains stuff that no girlfriend would want a boyfriend to look at such as naked people and what not. Cuz that just makes me self consious & fight to be even more prettier so i dont feel so ugly & compared to those girls.
Please just give me details on whats in that magazine, it'd be must helpful!! (link)
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If your boyfriend cares, he'll respect your want's and needs and stop with the magazines. My boyfriend used to look at stuff like that, but he stopped when he met me. If your boyfriend dosen't stop, he dosen't really care about your needs. Just talk to him about it, if he cares he'll listen.
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ok. my mom made me go to see a therapist when i was about 9 or 10, and he diagnosed me with depression. ever since them i have been going to a counseler every other week. ive been on an anti-depressant for maybe 4 years now, and nothing has changed. im always depressed and i feel hopeless. i really just want to die so i dont have to deal with all this crap, but i would NEVEREVER kill myself. i just wouldnt be able to do it. i just cant handle the pain and sadness anymore. please help me! i know there is nothing that will fix this, but i need suggestions. i really want to stop hating my life!! (link)
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I'm just curious, how old are you? I'm always here to talk. I can be very helpful, i know what your going through. I have issues with my family and friends. My family hates me, and my friends are jerks. I'm willing to always help, no matter.
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Okay, I am a junior in highschool and i have two bestfriends one is a boy and one is a girl. Lately they have been hanging out alot, and that doesnt bother me but they both are doing drugs. They are both a year younger than me but i love them too death. They make stupid decisions all the time, and i feel like i always have to be there, and i always want to be there but lately i dont know what to do. I am really stressed out and depressed and they make me cry all the time. And i know most who will respond to this will say dont be friends with them, or talk to someone, but not being friends with them is not an option. I just dont know what to do anymore, i told her mom because i dont want her to mess up her life more than it already is. I just get so angry with them i want to fight them. I want to hurt them so bad. please help me.. this is out of control.
sincerely. (link)
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Look, It's ok to tell a teacher once in a while. If they need help, like getting off drugs, a teacher will tell the parent and the parent will do the rest. If they get mad at you about it, then they are not good friend and they don't realize they have a great friend like you. Don't worry, if they are really your friends, they'll listen and get the help they need. Trust me. I've been in a situation like this too.
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