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okay well im 13 years old and all of my firends have made out with a boy.. I never have... its really weird... my best friend since forever and I WERE the only ones who hadnt made out with a guy untill she went out with this kid joe... so now im the only one who hasnt... and everytime im going out with someone and the subject comes up i get really nervous... idk im just really scared to show affection... like I will hug my boyfriend without a problem but when it comes to holding hands and kissing im scared... i have been kissed but never made out... i know what to do but at the same time i dont please help me!
Kati
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You are showing maturity by waiting and making rational decisions. It's not that great to make out with a boy. I haven't but all my friend have, but they all tell me not to because it makes your mouth really dry. It's just abnoxious.
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It's okay I know exavly how you fell you just gotta wait until the time is right and dont be worried bout it cuz I was too it just happens! N its fun! Hope I helped
-KrIsSy*
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yeah. most deff. i know how that is!!! i'm 15, and still haven't fully "made-out" with a guy. But the thing is, I HAVE gotten kisses, like you, and well, they all pretty much sucked cause they were not from people i really really liked.( bad b.f. luck.). Just make sure not to follow the trends of your friends.!. It will be your time soon enough! And then.. you will think it rocks. Don't worry, feelings and the way you find yourself comfortable come with time, and they shouldn't be rushed. :)
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Don't worry if you haven't kissed a boy yet. You don't want to remember having your first kiss with some random dude. Also find a boy who is understanding about your fear and everything should go right. Good Luck
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chill out.. ;)
-xxoBrianna
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okay well kati there is nothing to do when makeing out with your boyfriend except just kissing him. you can kiss him using the tongue or whatever you feel is right. My boyfriend and i went out for 2 years and i wasn't ready to make out with him then so i waited and he did also until i was ready to make out with him and you should just wait til you feel like your ready to do it. but if you are ready then just kiss him and do what you feel is right when your makeing out with your boyfriend like put your hands on his back or something. if you need anymore help please ask me and put a letter in my inbox and we can talk about this more.
-katie
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Don't rush into anything that you're not ready for. Maybe you are ready for making out with a boy, but it should be with someone that you really like. You shouldn't feel like you're obligated to make out with a boy just because all of your friends have. That makes you different, and being different is what makes us humans :). But when the time does come that you start to hook up with guys, don't worry about it. That sort of thing comes completely naturally, so you'll know exactly what to do.:)
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~A.Good.Lie~
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to tell you the truth, i think you're special. maybe it's not that you're scared, maybe you're just not ready and that's your heart telling you "no". know what i mean? don't be like "Well i'm the only one of my friends that hasn't made out with.. da da da da da" because just think; you have something that they will never have again. wait for someone special to come along, wait for the right time. when it's the right time, place and person, you'll know it.. then, when it finally happens, it'll be the best kiss ever. don't kiss someone just because they're pressuring you, okay? you'll know when you're ready.
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Well,first of all,you're not abnormal or weird!!Shoot I was 16 before I had my first kiss!!LoL I'm a firm believer in,kissing and making out,and even having sex,anything intimate with another person,is not something you should rush.Just let it happen naturally!When the time and the place and everything is right,it will happen!But don't be afraid of showing affection to your boyfriend!!Let him know that you're a little nervous and scared,there's nothing wrong with that!Now as far as HOW to kiss,there is no magic way I can tell you to hold your head or move your lips or your tongue.It's a very natural thing.The key thing is to learn to relax and let yourself enjoy the kiss!Hope I could help you some!! :)
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if u feel that u have to make out with ur boyfriend and u feel comfortable then go ahead but if u dont feel comfortable then dont do it until ur ready.
GOOD luck!!!
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If you're not ready to make out, its not that big of a deal. Not everyone makes out at age 13, so its fine. You don't have to do everything your friends do either, so do it when YOU are ready, not when your friends are ready. Hope this Helps! <3 xoxo
-megan
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Ok, i have that same problem! its totally ok!!! Okay.. u sound like ur a shy person, juss lyk me! except i have made out with like.. i dun wana count.. haha well you will be too soon enuff! u mite be kinda scared but trust me on this one once u get started aftR the first few secs ull b totally fine with it! jus lean in and follow his lead, good luck babe!
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hey ive had the same problem well still have the same problem im 13 2 hehe ive gone out iwth TONS of guys but have never really had made out wiht ne of them i get nervous 2 its wicket normal! my cousin hasnt either and shes 18 and shes wicket pritty! so its so normal you just live in lets call "fast" neighborhood lol hope i helped
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