well my boyfriend is a great guy. He loves his lady friends, they outnumber guys by far. Lately Ive been mad at him for being too friendly, now he is depressed and avoiding me. I am jealous because he has met them secretly or talked to them on the phone.He lied to me about it now it is hard to trust him. He said I shouldnt try to change the person he is and it is pushing him away. Should I just allow these phone calls and meetings to save us?What is he really thinking?
He may have secretely done things, because he knew that you were going to be mad about it if he were to tell you. I think you should try to be more trusting, because without trust in a relationship -- you have nothing.
Christopherluvr13 answered Friday November 17 2006, 4:43 pm: You shouldn't get so jealous. If he cared about you as being his girlfriend, he wont cheat on you. My bf has some friend that are girls, and i trust him to talk to them on the phone and hang out and stuff. I doubt he'll break up with you, just talk to him, instead of yelling. He'll Respect you, and care about hat you have to say, if he really cares. If he breaks up with you, don't take it out on yourself, it's is his loss! [ Christopherluvr13's advice column | Ask Christopherluvr13 A Question ]
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