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Okay, I am a junior in highschool and i have two bestfriends one is a boy and one is a girl. Lately they have been hanging out alot, and that doesnt bother me but they both are doing drugs. They are both a year younger than me but i love them too death. They make stupid decisions all the time, and i feel like i always have to be there, and i always want to be there but lately i dont know what to do. I am really stressed out and depressed and they make me cry all the time. And i know most who will respond to this will say dont be friends with them, or talk to someone, but not being friends with them is not an option. I just dont know what to do anymore, i told her mom because i dont want her to mess up her life more than it already is. I just get so angry with them i want to fight them. I want to hurt them so bad. please help me.. this is out of control.
sincerely.
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Look, It's ok to tell a teacher once in a while. If they need help, like getting off drugs, a teacher will tell the parent and the parent will do the rest. If they get mad at you about it, then they are not good friend and they don't realize they have a great friend like you. Don't worry, if they are really your friends, they'll listen and get the help they need. Trust me. I've been in a situation like this too.
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i know what you mean.most of my friends do drugs, but i dont. sometimes i get so mad at their desicions i go off on them but you have to understand that its there life and they have to choose their path. my advice; talk to them. not their parents but them, sit them down and tell them how this drug thing will effect your friendship they mite understand, but maybe they wont, just tell them how htis makes yu fell and how it makes you worry.
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I know exactly where you're coming from because a lot of my friends also do drugs. I don't do drugs because if I do, it could cost me my job. I let my friends know that what they do in their own personal time is not my business, but I do let them know how I feel about drug use around me. I don't choose to be around that sort of thing and they respect that because they're my friends. Tell your friends the same thing. Don't fight, don't hurt anyone, don't do anything that you might regret. Let them know that you are still their friend and will be there for them if they ever need you, but you won't be around their drug habit.
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