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Broken hearted
I have liked this guy for a long time and sometimes he likes me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her! He knows I like him but he just messes with me and I really want to get over him but I can't because I'm in so deep. The worst part is that he won't tell me that he doesn't like me...no, the worst part is that everybody is trying to get him expelled...like my friends are...the reason for that involves sexual harassment...he has been expelled for things like that and he did a few things here...nothing too big but so many people want him gone...I really don't because I know that deep down he is really a good guy...please help me...I don't know how to get over him...I want to march up to him and tell him that he has to TELL me I'm only a friend to him...it just really hurts. I'm sick of games being played with my heart...Sorry it's so long...XOXO
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you need to forget about this guy. hes not good enough for you and is only going to use you for a girl on the side. if he doesnt have any intention on being with you, then he shouldnt mess with you.
and why would you even WANT to be with a guy who has been accused of sexaul harassment..its not safe. also, if his girl friend finds out that you and him like flirt or w.e. it is that you guys do, she might get pissed off at not only him but you. and lets say if you do go out with this guy, what makes you think he wouldnt do that same thing he is doing to you, to another girl.
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Hmm, if he has been in trouble for sexual harassment, do you really want to get involved? I had a friend who got involved with a guy like that, and now when she walks down the halls people call her" Slut, skank, hooker, whore, and more." Just thought I'd let you know that it might not be the best thing to get too terribly involved. Hope for the best!
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You're giving this guy way too much control over you. Why does he get to decide whether or not there is a relationship while you just have to wait around until he makes up his mind? Why would you want a relationship with someone who treats you this way? Don't you deserve better? Don't you deserve someone who doesn't already have a girlfriend, who treats you with kindness and respect, who doesn't sexually harrass people? Once you decide you're worth more than that, getting over this guy will be much easier and you can focus on finding someone who treats you well. (By the way, if he strings you along even though he already has a girlfriend, he'd do the same with other women if you were his girlfriend. You deserve better.)
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Crushes are HARD. To be perfectly honest, you need to move on. This guy has a girlfriend, is accused of sexual harrassment, and plays games with you. He KNOWS you like him and he's playing on that and he's def not planning on telling you he doesn't like you, he loves the attention. This guy has pretty much everything! A girlfriend AND a girl on the side to flirt/mess with. YOU need to take one of those people away from him, and you know exactly who. You deserve to be appreciated, respected and loved. This guy does not show any of those things to you and will hurt you in the end. Your friends already don't like him and try to see their point of view. Think about all of his negative qualities and try to find other guys. In time, you'll realize what kind of person he really is and by then, your next boyfriend will have showed up!
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