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Question Posted Friday November 17 2006, 1:12 pm

Do guys dig chicks with glasses? I need to get glasses I think, and I'm already short, fat, and kind of ugly. Now I need glasses. Now will the boys think I am uglier than before?

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TinkerbellsHelp answered Sunday November 19 2006, 7:22 pm:
You are not ugly. Don't say that about yourself because I am pretty sure guys dont like girls who call theirselves ugly. Just make sure you get a very cute pair and try getting contacts so you can wear your glasses only somedays.

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advice_expert101 answered Sunday November 19 2006, 4:26 pm:
everyone has atleast one thing thats beautiful about themeselves.. so your not ugly.
well it really depends on the guy.
for the fat thing.. you could work out doing situps about a 100 a day. and then gradualy increase them. i kno you didnt really want any advice on the fat thing but i thought i should tell you anyways just incase.
just look in google for any websites with glasses ideas, shapes, sizes, colors, ect. there should be thousands of diffrent websites to choose from.
if you DONT want glasses.. you could always try contacts.. theres actaully a bunch of diffrent kind of contacts to choose from.. you could get the ones you put on for the day and then throw them away that night and so on. or the ones that you use for a week (and wash them and stuff) and then get new ones. OR you could get the ones that im ALWAYS bugging my parents for.. the ones that you put on at night and sleep with them, and take them out in the moring (they sculpt your eye or something so that you can see) and you can see perfectly with them for the rest of the day.. and you do that everynight. there really expensive tho and if you wanted contacts you would have to ask your parents about it and your eye docter would have to explain everything to you..

so i dont know it really is up to the guy if they are attracted to girls with glasses.. its diffrent for all of the i guess.

hope i helped<3

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Igotamonopoly answered Friday November 17 2006, 8:37 pm:
Glasse add personality to people's faces. I've worn glasses since I was 4, and now I have rally cute frames that complement my face. I have a round face and really light skin, but my glasses are square and black (emo glasses). I look so different without my glasses.

Contacts are also an option.

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Alin75 answered Friday November 17 2006, 7:14 pm:
Generally on average guys dont care about glasses one way or the other. You will find some that like them and some that dont, but most wont care. Their perception of you will not really change much, although if I was forced to pick one side or another I would say that it is more likely to have a negative than possitive effect. I hope for you it doesnt, but unfortunately people are only "beautiful no matter what" in tv shows. Regretfully reality does not work this way no matter how hard people wish that it did.

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sexy_rexy answered Friday November 17 2006, 6:53 pm:
Everyone is beautiful, no matter what, both inside and out so don't even think for a second that you aren't! I'm short for my age; I'm 16 but I'm like the height of a 12 year old, haha. But I love it now. That's what makes us special.

Glasses are actually really kewl right now. Heaps of celebs are wearing them too. Not all glasses are the same; when you go to the optometrist (or wherever you will buy your glasses) they will help you choose which type of frame will best suit your face. Then you get to choose from a wide range of awesome colours, shapes etc. You can get sunglasses which are prescription also and glasses that change to sunnies when you go outside in a different light! How cool is that?!

My boyfriend's little sis wears glasses for reading and stuff and when she puts them on she looks sooo cute. So don't worry they can actually make you look better! haha.

If you want to have a look at the different styles, frames and colours you can get head to this site for a look:

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They've got some pretty neat stuff there.

Best of luck with this, hope I could help you.

xox

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MelLeDisko answered Friday November 17 2006, 4:16 pm:
Aw.

I don't think the boys'll think you're ugly. Glasses are actually fashionable, now. There's some people who buy glasses with no perscription just for the sake of wearing them cause they look cool. Also, I think they make a person look smart.

And anyways, alot of people wear glasses, so you're not alone.

If they're going to sit there and make such a big deal of it, think of it as a compliment they're taking out all this time just to focus on a piece of metal on your eyes to help your vision and on you, and realize that they're just immature jerks.

I hope I helped.

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LagunaBabe answered Friday November 17 2006, 2:51 pm:
Aww, don't think of yourself that way. You are beautiful, no matter what shape, size, color, glasses-or-no-glasses.

I personally, do not wear glasses, except for my reading glasses. They do have some really nice and fashionable ones too. They're really not that bad, I'm sure.

Good luck, and don't worry about guys. If they really like you, it won't matter if you have glasses or not.

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beenthere1 answered Friday November 17 2006, 2:43 pm:
Who cares what the boys think?? How about what you think? What will make you unattractive is not the glasses; its your low opinion of yourself. Stop telling yourself you are 'short, fat, and kind of ugly'. If you see yourself that way, others will too. Focus on all the wonderful things about yourself - your sense of humor, your intellegence, your great smile. There's nothing wrong with short - you'll never have to worry about being taller than the boy you're going out with. There's nothing wrong with no being model skinny - curves on a woman are very sexy. There's nothing wrong with glasses - many women buy non prescription glasses to wear because glasses can be hot (think 'sexy librarian' costumes for Halloween). And there is absolutely nothing wrong with not being conventionally beautiful. Self confidence can make men beleive you are.

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just_ask_me answered Friday November 17 2006, 2:27 pm:
Actually, glasses are HOT this year. I know so many people that wear glasses, even though their eyesight is perfect! It's a fashion statement now and it really does make you look studious & intelligent. I think boys will notice you even more now! Of all the guys I know, from ages 15-20, they LOVE when I wear my glasses so don't worry. Chances are, there gonna compliment you about it. If you don't make it a big deal, they won't either.

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