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Too soon "I love you"
I just started dating this guy a few days ago and hes already saying "I love you". We havent even been on a date yet! I told him not to say it unless he means it and he said that he does. I feel a little uncomfortable, what should i say to him to show him that its too soon?
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Next time he tells you, tell him you think it`s too early and you`re not ready to say it. And that if he really does mean it then he can keep saying it. Be honest with him. ♥
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He might think he loves you, but most likely he doesn't. Let him know it's weird, and if he doesn't stop it consider leaving him. He'll only end up making dolls out of your hair and other weird things.
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You don't have to know a person for years OR months to be in love with them. Although,it's a tad bit too fast. You should just tell him how you feel,and if he can't accept that. Then,well call it off.
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never say it if you don't really mean it. usually when a couple has been dating for a few days/weeks and they're already saying "i love you" and such, it's almost a death wish for the relationship because things are just moving to fast. me and my bf have been dating for 2 months now and we still haven't said it. we talked it over and we both agreed that it's a really strong word not to just be thrown out there but that just because we don't say it, doesn't mean we don't care deeply for eachother...we're just not ready for that big of a step...yet. so my advice would be, if you really feel like you love him, then tell him, there's nothing wrong with it. but if you don't, then just tell him you wanna wait on it and see where things go
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Tell him the truth. That you appreciate how he feels, but that him telling you so soon makes you uncomfortable. If he continues to say it to you anyway, then you know he doesn't respect your feelings and its time to let him go.
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