I just started dating this guy a few days ago and hes already saying "I love you". We havent even been on a date yet! I told him not to say it unless he means it and he said that he does. I feel a little uncomfortable, what should i say to him to show him that its too soon?
You don't have to know a person for years OR months to be in love with them. Although,it's a tad bit too fast. You should just tell him how you feel,and if he can't accept that. Then,well call it off.
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every year i start off the school year being shy. last year i finally opened up and grew out of being shy and now that its a new year im back to being shy and i hate it. i can talk around my friends and stuff without a problem, but people i dont really know too much like my classmates, i cant open up to them. they either do all the talking and i just stand there looking like an idiot not knowing what to say, or i just neveer talk to them. i dont want to be shy but every time i try not to be shy i feel like everyones staring at me. I DONT WANNA BE KNOWN AS THE SHY GIRL. all of my friends know that im loud and stuff, but the rest of the people dont know i exist cuz im soo quiet. what can i do to break outta my shell and just let loose?
Amazing.I have the same problem.All my friends see that I laugh,talk and just have fun.But other people may think that i'm just a boring person.Which i'm not.I started being shy for some years now.The only reason why is that I had moved to a different school..and eversince then i've been shy.I'm working on it though..every year I promise myself that i'm not going to be shy like the last.I fail everytime. But to answer your question: Just be you. If you laugh loud, then laugh loud. Talk loud, be free!! If you feel that everybody is staring at you then..so what? Let them stare.Soon enough you'll get used to NOT being shy. And they will too. Talk to your friends, and even the people you don't know. Then you wont be known as the "shy girl" anymore.
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