Okay so I like a boy I hardly know. Problem? Not sure. But I haven't had an actual conversation with him for literally months. It's just been "hey" in the halls since then. He's a grade above me, his name is Dave. Well my guy friend knows him from a sports team and one time he was on the phone. According to my guy friend, Dave said, "Who is that, (my name)? She's pretty hot eh?" And then recently another guy friend of mine has been trying to help me out. He thinks Dave is a really awesome guy and he knew him once, which is comforting since I seem to always go for the wrong dude. But anyway, my friend talked to him about a week ago randomly and asked if he knew me, because he saw us say hi in the hallway a lot. Dave said yes, then my friend asked what Dave thought of me. Dave's response was something like "What do you mean?" So my friend asked him if Dave thought I looked good, and the response was yes (and my friend adds that it was in a "duh!" tone of voice, haha). And apparently Dave had a little smile going on there. My friend thinks he got the hint, and since they had that conversation, instead of just "hey" in the hall it's something different. He'll just give me a funny look to make me laugh or like stick his tongue out at me. I have another guy friend who is good friends with Dave and he knows I like Dave. He's been trying to get us to all hang out but things keep coming up. I think I want to wait a little longer to see if that will happen since I don't have to do too much in that case.
Anyway, what I'm asking is, I guess he likes my looks if nothing else, but like I said, I haven't talked to him in a longgg time. He was so cool the last time I talked to him, but I miss it, it's been so long. He's very easy to talk to, which is unusual for me because I'm a pretty bad conversationalist. But I only see him for like a few seconds a day when we pass each other in the hall. What can I say or do to maybe have a quick conversation on the off chance I see him for more than 3 seconds? And another thing I'm scared of is that if he is interested, I'm afraid I won't be much of a challenge, which in my experience guys like. Haha, I've liked him for so long that playing hard to get sounds painful for me. But any input here would help. Thanks!
vivalajuicy01 answered Monday February 12 2007, 12:14 am: i think you should bring a friend with you when you go to talk to him, she/he will save you if the convo starts to fade. think of somethings that you could both talk about or even better ask the guy you know that was on his team. good luck girl! &remember if he likes you too then the convo should start flowing. [ vivalajuicy01's advice column | Ask vivalajuicy01 A Question ]
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