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ugh. soo confused /:
hi, im fifteen and a girl. i like this boy, a lot. and he has a girlfriend, i hate her. anyways, it always seems like he is flirting with me because he will be like "you're beautiful" and we always laydown together and watch tv, and like stuff like that, and whenever we say hi or bye, or just want to, he hugs me, and like its not like a friendly hug because ive gotten plenty of those, its different. im so confused, because before he went out with this girl, he used to kiss me and stuff, and like, idk, i really like him, and he knows it, help me.
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You should just be friends with him for right now. If him & his girlfriend break up, go out with him. But for now, don't do anything that could potentionally hurt his relationship or piss his girlfriend off. I'm sure if you were her, and another girl was flirting with him, you'd be pretty pissed too.
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Hey whats up?
I read your problem and I have answered a couple of similar ones before. But for the millionth time i think, i am sorry to tell you that there is nothing that you can do about it.
I mean... be realistic for a while, can you break them up? Or like make them hate each other? or tell him that you love him and that you would make a better girlfreind that she is?
Ofcourse you can't do anything of this, because first,your a good person.Second, you would hurt him if you do this. Third, he could hate you for that. And even though you hate her, and maybe he is not crazy in love with her, but she's still his girlfriend and apart of him wants her, thats why he didn't leave her till now.
So there's basically nothing you can do. Just stay friends, hang around, joke, and fool around. And if he hugs you, hug him, if he surprisingly kissed you, kiss him. But if there is anything else, you have to know,that your only freinds and that your not his girlfreind. Besides, if he really does love you as he's showing by his actions ,then he would have left his girlfriend, and asked you out.But it seems like he doesn't know what he wants himself. So just give the situation some time, and i hope things would soon fall to place.
Take care and if you need any other help, please be free to contact me by a private message or an email.
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i can tottally relate to this. i think that if he was kissing you and giving those hugs [&i know those hugs your talking about] he probably does like you. does he act the same way with his girlfriend[like the "your beautiful",kissing,etc]? if not she may just be there to get you jealous. think about it, he's going out with this girl that you hate&yet he treats you like your his girlfriend.
hope that helped.
goodluck:]
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I just got a boyfriend that i adore and he used to be goigng out with the girl i hated, Monique Draft. He dumped her for me, so what i am saying is, he may not have the courage to break up with the girl. if you know he likes you, go for it girl!
♥ Alicia Valentine
-now go do the right thing.
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