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why do guys have to jude on looks
i hate it and how can i look better to make guys like me i have acne but ive been using face wash everyday and i hate when people walk up to me and say get pro active and laugh well my acne is not that but i think im pretty sometimes but i was going out with a hott guy but idk i need help to get a bf because i really want one and i want to be popular how do you get to be popular im trying to like tell people that you dont have to be perfect to be popular but how do you????
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I understand what you are trying to prove....but wanting to be popular makes it like never happen. You just gotta be nice to like everyone never talk trash be everyones friend but not fake...you also gotta be happy in your own skin.
No one that has wanted to be popular has become popular. "Popular" people don't think of themselves as popluar they just live their lives.
Good luck
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Honestly, this isn't Mean Girls. This is the real world & once you're out of high school, you'll mature & realize there are other priorities than worrying about what other people think about you. Appearance isn't everything. Looks may get you to the door, but they might not always hold the relationship. The truth is: you don't need to LOOK good to make a guy like you. A nice guy will look past your appearance & flaws & will like you for who you are as a person. As corny & cliche as it sounds, it's very well true. Any guy who likes you soley based on looks is not worth dating to begin with. Don't bring the wrong attention & the wrong guys to yourself by using your looks to get what you want. If you want a boyfriend, be flirty & be yourself. There's nothing hotter than someone who is confident & who doesn't care what anyone else thinks about them. Hold your head up high when people make fun of you, start paying attention to the things you love about yourself (physically or personality), & go after those boys instead of waiting for them to come to you. Just be yourself & people will like you - making it easier to make new friends.
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Yeah I hate that too but thats what rouse up the Infatuation however not all guys are like that GLADLY!!!
But ya know im not gonna go against you by saying, just be yourself because obviously thats not what you are asking :D
To get a guys to notice you is...(these are all from guys actually because I just recently asked all my guy friends what they notice in girls :D cuz i was so curious as to what those were as well )
-Smile... I know very cliche but seriously, if they don't see you smile and having a good time of whatever you are doing, then they might think you are too serious and/or think you are intimidating... (i kind of learned that the hard way XD) so smile if you catch a guy's eye. I know it might be little bit awkward or bit downer if they look away, but its likely they do that because they get shy as well.
-Smell... I know lol but that is one of the factor that I've been told. If you walk by a guy and you have some pretty smelling body spray or perfume, it will leave some impression on a guy
-clothes. That is very varied factor because they way you dress will catch different types of guys. I know people are saying no sterotyping and et cetera but seriously think about it. Would guys that are into sports(aka "jocks") and what not go for a girl who is in full out black(aka "goths")?
But that as well have exceptions. Just dress nicely, not all body revealing and you will meet some good guys. Wear clothes that are flattering to you and your body type and something that expresses you. Dont go buying whatever is in style or nothing because that brings guy to think you are materialistic
Hope this helped and lemme know if you need more help :D
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