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handjob problem..
Hi
HOW and when do i give my boyfriend a handjob?We've been together 3 months now and he has fingerd me once and i know he doesnt expect anything bt iv neva done nething nd i rly want to now..i jus dont know how 2 get around 2 giving it!should i be in his room/bed/wat??
also im a christian and i dont know if its wrong 2 be doing this stuff with my boyfriend?He knows that i want to wait for sex until im married but what about the other stuff?is it wrong?
(girl-17)
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it may seem wrong to some people, but others it's no big deal. i am very catholic, and i've had sex. yes, it may be wrong but i don't regret it. so don't be nervous about it. if you really want to give him a handjob just wait until you are alone with him, most likely on a bed. and start making out and stuff and then just feel for his pants, and you'll know if he likes it. if he doesn't say anything like unbutton his pants and and just stroke. start slow, then you can go faster. and be confident about it, if you really want to do it.
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Don't seem so nervous, well i guess you can say alot of girls your age get nervous too. I was my first time and I am only 16 too. But what you do is act like you want to do somthing extra special that night and take him into his room and sit on his bed and sit him down first. Then, start kissing on his neck, then on his ear, after you have gotin him nice and ready....start taking his pants off and put your hand around his penis with some force and move your hand up and down. Start off slow then you will start to accelerate. Then I will leave you at that point because I am sure you will know what else to do.If you have anymore questions or concerns just ask.
thanks
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i actually dont agrree withh the other advice givers. ha. but really as long as you dont have sex. your good. your alowed to give and recieve SOME kind of plessure. its not a sin to feel good. haha. but ya just kinda start feelin him while you kiss sumtime wen your definetly alone. then slowly start feelin him more. and i thinkk hell get wats goin on. but in my opinion i think you shud blow him instead. just an idea. cuz sum guys even enjoy that more then sex. just a thought.
ha be careful.
bye. hope i helped a little.
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listen , im a christian too .always remember ,keep your self pure for marriage n if ur boyfriend doesnt expect anything ,dan why rush into shit , n if he does expect some thing than dump his ass. dont let any guy come btw u and God.
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