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I think I fell in love and screwed myself over!
16m,
I'm gay and I dated a 14m that has a brother that goes to my school. It got really complicated and I think I fell in love with him. My problem is this, I am moving in two months and I kinda told him that I wish nothing ever happened between us and that it was over and that I never wanted to see him again.
Please help. My columnist name is Ilovehippies. Check "My Questions" and look at "Love Problems" before you answer this. That's the full story. Please dont bother answering unless you read it all because I truly need help.
Thank you,
---Brandon---
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If you were in love with him, you can't let anything come between you. you have to work it out.
You need to have a talk with him. Just you two, somewhere private.
Call him up; you don't have to act like you're into him, and you don't have to act like you're not. Just tell him that you have to talk to him, and give a time and a place.
Don't be too forward, but don't beat around the bush either. Just tell him how you really feel. And make sure you tell him everything, except maybe that you love him.. it could scare him away or put too much pressure on him. Just tell him what you want, and how you feel. Then, see what he says. Stay calm; don't yell or anything.
But seriously, it's a really big deal.
I know this wasnt a great answer, and im sorry. If you need anything though, leave me one in my inbox.
I really hope it works out for you.
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I think I answered your question about this earlier when you asked it a few weeks ago.
First off, why did you tell him that? Did you really mean it? If not, you need to go and tell him that you're sorry, and that you didn't mean a word of it.
He's probably really upset & confused. I realize you're moving, but that's no reason to take it out on him. Even though you're moving, try and renew your friendship with him, & stay in touch.
He's only 14, don't break him like that. Good luck.
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I read your full story about this. You left out that you guys dated for 2 weeks in this question, which got me a bit confused lol. Alright so, this guy is 14, and your 16. You know your orientation, which is great, but this guy evidently doesnt. You probably said thatyou wished you never met him because you were really hurt that he didnt have feelings like you do for him. I say because he's young and is still confused, give him some time. Just let him know that you didnt mean what you said, and would still like to be friends, and if in the future he figures out his orientation, to let you know. But, don't wait around for him, theirs other guys out there for you. Dont let this get you down. Hope I helped! Happy Spring!
-Brina
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