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am i a player?


Question Posted Saturday April 14 2007, 12:35 pm

14/f

well i have a bf. well we've been 2gether 3 weeks 2day. well, i think i have a prob. everytime i get in2 a relationship all the guys wanna go with me. its hard becuz they r SOOOO fine. i made out with some1 last weekend and i told my bf. he 4gave me and i only have 1 more chance. i love my bf 2 death, but idk how 2 stop my prob... HELP ME!!!.,., thankz,
holla back at da snowbunny "abby n tyree"


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Sabine answered Saturday April 14 2007, 3:30 pm:
Okay, 'insertrandomname', that was uncalled-for. The poster never said she's sleeping with *any* of these kids. She's 14, for heaven's sake!

That being said, it's not right to have a boyfriend if you can't stop thinking about being with other guys. You are not yet ready for a steady boyfriend. You need to be free to kiss (not screw) lots of boys before you settle on one. When you meet the right one, which is probably going to happen within the next couple of years, then you'll be ready for a committment. You're not ready now. My advice is that if you can't stop being attracted and finding yourself entangled with other guys, let your boyfriend know that you really like him and but that you're not ready for a committment yet. He should understand. Don't grow up too fast. There's nothing wrong with liking several guys!

Sabine

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insertrandomname answered Saturday April 14 2007, 2:52 pm:
Yes you're a "player".
Although I think a more accurate description would be something along the lines of "slut"

It's not hard to stop, you just refrain from putting your tongue in other guys's mouths and opening your legs for them.

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BAMAWAMA answered Saturday April 14 2007, 2:25 pm:
you seem like a player...but the only way to stop is if you stop yourself...you need selfcontrol and if you likeother people then you should beak upwith your b/f cause itsnot fair to him

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