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a few sex questions
alright so my boyfriend and i have had sex about 5 times so far...and it just stopped hurting after the 4th time. but even thought it stopped hurting, it didnt feel like much after. isnt it supposed to start feeling good after it stops hurting? its not that he's small or anything..he pretty much fills out a magnum...which comes to my other question. how is a condom supposed to fit? is it supposed to be really tight? because the magnum seems to fit fine...just a little but more room, becasue the regluar trojan condom looks too tight. i dont know, maybe it's just me being paranoid. i just was hoping it would start feeling good soon, not just for my sake...but for him as well. i think it would make him feel good to know that im orgasming. i've never done it yet, and he has fingered me before. i hear that not everyone orgasms from being fingered though.
thanks so much!
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How old are you? This might be your bodies way of telling you you are not ready yet!!
Baby I am was not trying to tell you that you are not mentally ready but our bodies do not always agree with our minds...
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Hello.
Actually, truth be told not a lot of women orgasm from sex alone. Studies show (or showed when I last had read up on it anyway) that it is generally through oral sex.
At least the good thing is that it has stopped hurting but as for it feeling good and you reaching an orgasm it may just take some time and patience. It could just be a mental block - if you are waiting for the orgasm to come and it is all that is on your mind that can be the mental block. Best thing to try is oral sex I think. Experiment and always try to tell him what you like and what you don't like. Usually the reason something is wrong when it comes to sex between a couple is because no-one says what they like and don't like. Instruct him on what makes you feel good and go from there. You will get there eventually though so don't worry. :)
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