Friday night i was at a party with my boyfriend jon of three months this saturday. I get drunk really easily and thats what happened. We were about to be going home and when we got to his car we ended up making out for so long. I think i gave him head. I dont exactly remember but he said he wasnt drunk so im not sure because i was pretty messed up. Im still a virgin and i think he is too. he'spretty shy and this is the first time we did anything besides him going down my pants (fingers only). I want to know what happened without feeling really stupid. How should i bring it up? I also got grounded for a month because i came home late so whatever but hes been asking when im gonna beable to go back out again and stuff. do u think he wants me more now that i gave him head and stuff? i cant exactly remember but im almost positive i did. it wasnt weird at all though but he didnt come? does that mean i was bad?
orphans answered Monday April 16 2007, 6:13 pm: You dont Remember giving head?
If you want a honest answer ask a honest question.
Unless he sliped you a ruffy or something. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
ammo answered Monday April 16 2007, 6:11 pm: Firstly, I don't mean to be an ass with this but you really should be really careful when it comes todrinking especially if the alcohol hits you really fast. It's a good thing that you were with someone you know would look after you but if it was a complete stranger you were with and you can't remember what you did then the results can be very bad. Not scaring or anything but just speaking from experience - you should be really careful.
Hmm, as for what happen I think the best thing to do is so sit him down and ask him what happen that night and to let him know that you was drunk so you don't remember but you think this is what happen. As for him cumming or not, he is your bf so I see no reason why you shouldn't just ask him. :) If he didn't then don't worry - don't forget you were drunk at the time and if he's a virgin there can be a number of things that would have prevented him from cumming (being over anxious for one). If you are worried it was just because of you then don't be - it doesn't mean you were bad at all. Everyone is different and what turns some on may not work for others and it's all a matter of experimenting and finding those little things that work. Communication is important here as this way you can say what you like and dont like when doing something and he can do the same too. [ ammo's advice column | Ask ammo A Question ]
useyourcommonsense answered Monday April 16 2007, 6:01 pm: Ok well you were not drunk enough not to remember because you remember he didnt cum!!! Anyways don't start using alcohol for an excuse that you don't remember because it will be a long road in front of you.. We are capable of making decisions when we are intoxicated our judgement is just not the best. But you remember so why pretend you don't?? If he is a virgin he probably would have cummed very easy so you might want to talk to him and get that cleared up.. Pratice makes perfect if this what you want I quess!! [ useyourcommonsense's advice column | Ask useyourcommonsense A Question ]
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