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I want more out of him
me and my boyfriend have been going out since 4th march.. thats nearly one n a half months..
and all weve done is huggeD?? is ther something wrong.. its hard because i always give me friends advice about love and taking it to the next step, but i can;t even take on my own advice and do it myself. i don't know if its me or him. his always the one whos hugging me so it must be me. he sent a message the other night saying '' i love you, do you think we should take our relationship to the next level '' and i replied '' yes '' and then nothing after that.. we sat next to each other in the movies and nothing still happened~!! pls i need help.
thanks
love julia xxx
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dont worry.
me n my b/f have been dating for 9 months and he didnt hug me or hold my hand until 2 months.
we kissed on our 3 month ani. and just a peck lol
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haha thats the same with me! ive been going out with this guy since feb 23 and we kissed for the first time yesterday...it wasnt even makeout it was just a kiss... im pretty sure that if you get really comfortable with the person it will become easier, but no theres nothing wrong with you...maybe hes just shy to make the move and doesnt want to mess up if i were you i would just do it myself... he obviously wants you to.
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Don't worry about it. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months and it took him 3 months to even peck me on the lips! I thought there was something wrong with me. But with my boyfriend, he just wanted me to know he respects me. It frustrated me at the time, but now I get it. And I'm actually glad he did it that way because it's better to take things slow. If you do everything at once, there's nothing to look forward to, right? Don't worry about anything. If you really want to take it to the next level and he doesn't seem to be trying to do it first, you could always make the first move. Guys like it when girls are aggressive like that.
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It's no big deal. Some couples go months without kissing or doing anything. And it's better to move slow anyways. Cause if you're going out for a week, and you've already done everything, that'd be lame, and bad.
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man oh man do i know how that feels im the same why i give advice but i just cant bring my self to take my own what the fuck right but ok i think you want to take to the next level but your nervous to make the first move i mean really make the first move i know how that feels but if you want to you need to take what you want i know easier said than done but your cant sit on the sidelines forever u know what i mean kiss him and if you cant bring yourself to actually take his head and kiss him when your alone or at the movies calmly say or whisper and say hey "DO YOU WANT TO MAKE OUT " AND THAN WINK AND IF HE TAKES THE HINT THE HARD PART IS OVER and let him do the rest i know its hard but you wont get anywhere unless you make known in what you want goodluck let me know what happens go get him lol my inbox is always open if you need any more help
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Hi Julia.
Well, if you feel you can't actually talk to him about this in person because it might be embaressing and you can't make the first move with him then I think the best thing to do might be to try what I had done. :]
I had this same problem in one of my relationships. We always talked online about what we would do when we were together at the cinema the next time around but when it actually came to it, it was harder than Ihad thought because I was unsure if she felt the same way. It was all about nerves really and being scared that she might all of a sudden change her mind so I might get slapped or something, hehe. I won't go into too many details but she gave me the hint that she did want me to do something so I wasn't scared after that and the rest, as they say, is history. :]
When you are both in a cinema next time use your cell phone and write on there something like, "so when will I be getting my kiss?" and show it to him and see what happens. Little things like these will help give him that extra little bit of confidence when you are with him to encourage him to actually take it to that next level you both want it to go to. The cell phone thing is just an idea but it worked really well with me.
Sorry I can't be much more help than this. Good luck with him. :]
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