Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Age: 15
Member Since: May 20, 2006
Answers: 15
Last Update: August 18, 2007
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whats with guys and taking cold showers? i dont get jokes (link)
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It helps them not be stiff anymore.
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I am only 15, f, and I have this big vein running up the back of my right leg that is pretty close to the surface of my skin. Someone noticed it the other day and then I asked my mom if she could tell and she said it looked like a varicose vein, but aren't only old people supposed to get that? So does this mean I am unhealthy or something? (link)
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Don't worry, I have this too. It's either from not exercising enough or it's hereditary.
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I'm in the mood to watch some really romantic movies, so if you can list any besides the Notebook or Titanic, I'll be soooo grateful! (link)
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I like Tristan & Isolde.
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does anyone know how get my ipod to sync again? when i plug it in, it use to automatically come up on my itunes, but now it doesnt, and i cant put music on it. pleeeeeasssseee help. i miss my poddy!!! (link)
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This happened to me too. I just kept unplugging it and then plugging it back in and after a while it worked.
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My bf wants to go all the way but i am not sure i am ready. I keep having fantasies of us together but i stop myself. It's getting really hard because he brings condums every time we see each other. My friends and their bf's are doing it...should I?
age: 15/f
my bf: 18 (link)
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If you don't feel like you are completely ready, DO NOT do it. Only go all the way with your boyfriend when you feel ready for it. Even though your boyfriend is pressuring you, in the long run you'll regret it if you lose your virginity just because he was pressuring you to.
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me and my boyfriend have been going out since 4th march.. thats nearly one n a half months..
and all weve done is huggeD?? is ther something wrong.. its hard because i always give me friends advice about love and taking it to the next step, but i can;t even take on my own advice and do it myself. i don't know if its me or him. his always the one whos hugging me so it must be me. he sent a message the other night saying '' i love you, do you think we should take our relationship to the next level '' and i replied '' yes '' and then nothing after that.. we sat next to each other in the movies and nothing still happened~!! pls i need help.
thanks
love julia xxx (link)
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Don't worry about it. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months and it took him 3 months to even peck me on the lips! I thought there was something wrong with me. But with my boyfriend, he just wanted me to know he respects me. It frustrated me at the time, but now I get it. And I'm actually glad he did it that way because it's better to take things slow. If you do everything at once, there's nothing to look forward to, right? Don't worry about anything. If you really want to take it to the next level and he doesn't seem to be trying to do it first, you could always make the first move. Guys like it when girls are aggressive like that.
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I am a 17 y/o male. My "love" is not talking to me because she wants someone taller and heavier than herself. I am 5'10", 130 lbs, and she is 5'9", 130 lbs. She feels that i must be heavier, not just the same weight. Since my weight is distributed throughout muscle, she is insecure. I have trouble gaining weight, so what should i do? (link)
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That's ridiculous. If she loves you, she will accept you for how tall you are and however much you weigh. Tell her to accept you for how you are, or you'll find someone else who will. That's stupid of her.
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My boyfriend and my one month is tommorrow but i have no freaking clue what to get him. I mean i really dont know where he shops and stuff because we have been only going out for a month now and i hardly to get too see him because we go to different schools. Soooo i need your help. Tell me what some of you girls got your bf's for your one month or something. Ang guys tell me what you guys wanted for your one month or just a present. Thanks :]
xoxo
~katelyn~
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Most guys don't actually expect anything for your one month. Most times, they don't even remember. Also, if you get your boyfriend a gift for your one month, it could get really expensive to get him a gift every month you're together. And he might feel pressured to give you a gift every month.
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ok me and my boyfriend are both 15 lol and have been wanting to go to the zoo forever. we never got the chance because winter came, so we were planning to go in the spring, which just started. today he asked hey would it be ok to go to the zoo with my mom and david too? davids their family friend, who i dont like because he laughs really loud and picks on me for not wearing a bow. i used to wear one in my hair all the time and it was him that actually made me stop wearing them. but anyways my boyfriend didnt let me answer yet and he went and asked his mom the same question. do you think im being i dont know what word to use...selfish i guess? because i want to go alone instead of with his mom and their friend? would you feel the same way? should i go alone or go with them? (link)
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Don't worry, you aren't being selfish. I would feel the same way. But I think that you should go ahead and go with your boyfriend and his mom and David. You could end up having fun and it would show your boyfriend that you're willing to compromise on things.
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okay im sry but this is gonna be long... Okay 15/M Im currently in a relationship and i guess things are goin good she always goes to her friends houses though and they are boys but those boys are geeks and she says she doesnt like them, and my ex sammie whom cheated on me(well was through up against a locker and made out with some dude) is still in love with me and we had sex be4 and she wants to agin and says she is still in love with me after 6 months(we constantly talk) and i love her still to then this girl i just meet liek a week ago tiffany is soo awsome she keeps beggin to me that she wants a long relationship and wants to hang with me and chill and i guess one of my asshole friends told her i want to bang her which i wouldnt mind but never said and Tiffany goes to me tonight on aim so i hear you want me, baby i want you too how about tom night? omg everyone what do i do? (link)
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I agree with both the girls who answered before me. I personally don't agree with cheating, so I think that you should break up with your girlfriend until you can figure out which girl you like. Or at least take a break from relationships for a while until you figure out what you want. Girls don't like it when their boyfriends like other girls or are in love with their exes. And if Tiffany wants a relationship, it doesn't look like that would be right for you because you like 3 different girls.
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I'm normally a confident girl,
I liked the way I looked,
and was pretty comfortable with myself,
I'm asian, and lately I just dont feel pretty, compared to everyone else..
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What exactly is the question?
I always feel better when I get a new cute outfit. Just splurge on yourself a little. It always makes me feel better =].
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i have never been kissed and i don't eexactly plan to hehe =) but my boyfriend has been kissed on the lips (jerk) and insists that i do it to but i don't know, i want it to be romantic and wonderful i want it to be just right but i don't know if i should kiss him or not and if i should can u advise how? (link)
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Don't feel pressured by your boyfriend to kiss him. You should kiss him when you feel ready, not when he wants it. Wait until when you feel comfortable kissing him.
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o.k i was going with this boy for 2 years...then after a while we started breakin up then gettin back togther again..finally we decided to break up for good....but after we decided to break up i keep goin to see him and everytime i keep seein him i wanted him back but heres da problem....he got a new girlfriend well he started going wit her the same time he started goin with me...2years ago(tears)...but after all the hurt i still want him back and if he ask to go back wit me i would say yes...should i move on or try and make it work..HELP ME!!! (link)
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I think you need to move on. Obviously you guys were having problems if you kept breaking up and then getting back together. So if you get back with him, it may end up just like before. I would move on cuz you could find a guy you really like, instead of waiting for one who has a girlfriend.
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these boys in my grade are really jerky and really hurt my feelings. It makes me very upset! I don't know what to do anytime they get the chance to insult me they DO. I ask them nicley to stop and theyu say no. I've told adult sand they talked to them but then it gets bad again. So NOTHING at this point is working. ANy advice? thanks=] (link)
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I would just ignore it. They'll get bored when they don't see you getting upset about their insults and move on.
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so i have a dance coming up, and i wanna dance with my date obv, and i wanna be good at it. but i dont know the first thing about grinding or anything. what do i do? how do i do it? (link)
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I suggest that you watch what other girls do and just kind of copy them, then you'll get the hang of it and be able to do it on your own.
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