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these boys in my grade are really jerky and really hurt my feelings. It makes me very upset! I don't know what to do anytime they get the chance to insult me they DO. I ask them nicley to stop and theyu say no. I've told adult sand they talked to them but then it gets bad again. So NOTHING at this point is working. ANy advice? thanks=]
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I would just ignore it. They'll get bored when they don't see you getting upset about their insults and move on.
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Seriously. Ignore them. Act like it doesn't bother you. They mess with you just to see your reaction, and once you stop giving one, they will get bored and stop. Now, don't just ignore them for a week and then stop, because it may not work right away. Give it time, and they will stop =)
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It's simple-boys can be incredibly stupid.
Don't waste your time letting these things get to you. Just ignore it. Some boys are to stupid to stop doing something when ask, it just gives them more of a reason to keep going. just ignore them, go on with your life, they aren't important enough and they're wasting your time.
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Well, if this were me I would joke with them back. Joke about their penis size (depending on your age), just act like it doesn't bother you, and warn them you have means things to say about them too. Or if they get really mean kick them in the balls, and be like opps looks like I can joke about you having no balls now, or like wow I didn't feel anything, you must be small. I know this sounds funny but that will deffinatly shut then up. Hope I helped.
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Okay -
This might sound dumb, but you should just ignore them. They'll figure out that they're just being immature soon enough. Why bother yourself with it? It might be hard to ignore it, but it should work. Let me know, Good luck!
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