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i really like this guy
i love this guy, we talked and he was talking to me like a guy would talk to a girl he might like and he told me i was cute and everything then one of my best friends came into the picture and ever since then hes been talking to her the same way and talking to me more just like a regular person and im really upset, how should i handle this? 14/f
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well if this guys a jerk then if hes a jerk hes not worth you being upset over him. Then if your best friend is a real friend she wouldnt just take your guy just forget about them both their butt heads
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Forget about him. First of all your friend is a whore. second of all he's a jerk. forget about both of them and move on to bigger and better friends/guys. --TheCuriousAries
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Are you still friends with him? I think it would be best for you to move on and not keep brooding over it. If you two were dating it might be a different story. You shouldn't feel at lost for something like this. I know that a lot of girls love to just have that guy there who tells them all those things they want to hear (believe it or not, even if its somebody other than their current boyfriend). I'm sure you can both stay friends and still stay best friends with her, but if was saying all those things to you and is now saying it to your best friend, then who else has he said it to and who's next? Get the picture? I don't mean to say that he was making anything up or just says these things to be nice, but some guys (yes they actually exist) might go out of their way to say nice things to girls they might consider better friends, or are just comfortable saying it to. Don't hold a grudge or be jealous about it, because if you do get that way it might interfere with the friendship you have with your best friend, besides the fact that she probably never even meant to make you feel this way in the first place. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Well, if when he met your best friend he decided she was a better match for him, there isn't anything you can do about it, other than accept it and move on.
His loss, not yours, anyhow.
Realistically, it was a good thing for him to do something like this now, rather than start something with you and THEN change his mind.
Either way, don't get angry with your friend over it. There is never any sense in letting a guy interfere with your friendship. It's not worth it.
ygs-29/f
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the guy you may like, sounds like a heavy flirt.
You should talk to your best friend,and ask her, what shes doing. If you like a guy, your best friend shouldnt try taking him away.
But, its his loss, if he got over you. You should never let a guy get you upset, because eventually you will look back at this, and laugh..at him, for letting you go.
If you want to be a little more blunt, you can ask him to his face, what he thinks of your best friend.
Hope i helped! :)
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it sounds to me like your guy is a flirt. flirty guys are hard to figure out. it may take even months to figure out if he likes you. keep talking to him and hopefully, you'll eventually figure it out. and a little flirting back wouldn't hurt! good luck!
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