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15/f (soph.)
THIS MIGHT BE KINDA LONG. BUT PLEASE ANSWER ANYWAYS!!!!
okay so i like four guys. lets call them ABC&D.
A: he told me he liked me. i can trust him with anything. he can trust me with anything. we talk all the time on the phone, basically every night. we flirt all the time and he like tells me he wants to kiss me and stuff. but when we hang out hes awkward and i dont like him as much. he doesnt go to my school either. ive stayed up all night two nights this week talking to him. like hes really amazing when we talk on the fone. i think he may like this other girl too that i hate, but he says he doesnt.
B: he also told me he liked me. but he likes this other girl too. hes liked her for a longgg time. hes liked me for a few months. he says he doesnt wanna like the other girl because she will never like him back and stuff. ive been talking to him on the phone a little lately and hes really cute. and like i actually like him when i see him in person. he also goes to a different school.
C: hes one of my best friends. he goes to my school. we've gone out before during the summer before freshman year. hes really nice we always talk online and sometimes text. we flirt sometimes and hes just like a fun kid to talk to.
D: this guy confuses me sooo much. okay so he like never hooks up with anyone. everyone from his school told me he was a tease and he just nonstop flirts. but then he like made out with me. and he like made the first move. so i was like wtf. it was weird. we still talk online and facebook and stuff. we used to hang out a lot but not anymore. i see him like once every 2 months or something. hes just like a really big mystery and thats what makes me like him.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!
is it like wrong if i hook up with more than one of these guys?

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HELP

You can always just DATE all of them, and not have any of them be your steady boy friend. Infact I would suggest doing that, just untill you see which one you really like. Then if you want to take things a step further and actually be in a committed realtionship with any of them you can! :D

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A lot of my friends birthdays are coming up and I'm not wanting to buy them like a huge gift. I was wanting to make something little and creative. Really anything, just something for a birthday like a little cake.. and a creative card? Some ideas would be all the most helpful. thanks :)

usually, if your a teenager money is the best option to go with. I normally make my friends a card, by likedrawing it and stuff. Then I write them a special little poem inside. Also I give them maybe 20$ and a monster drink to wrap it all up. When it is like one of my BEST friends I'll often make them a little bracelet or necklace or a collage of pictures we took in the last year =]
Its just the thought that counts ya know?
Hope I could help!

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My mother and sister came home today and told me that they went to the library and when they came back, there was a parking ticket on their car.

Now we never got one before but here's the thing, should we pay?

My sister said that on the pole there was the parking sign and they were parked in between the time it said so nothing was wrong. But after looking around when they got back, they realized the ABOVE that sign, there was a sign with a red symbol (circle with a slash in between it).

So that means that the parking sign wasn't covered or anything so what the heck? If that red sign was meant for no parking, shouldn't it be right on the green parking symbol instead of above it?

Well I think you should pay it, just as to make sure you don't get into any more trouble! But something else you should do is file a complaint to your city courthouse and argue that the ticket wasn't fair!
Hope I helped :D

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ok well theres this guy in my school and i dont have any classes with him but it seems like i see him every where i go.! like if im in the hallway walking i just look over and hes walking right htere.! he is soooo cute but i dont think i want to talk to him b.c i dont want to seem weird to him.! and i most of the time when i look over and see him im pretty sure hes looking at me 2. but idk if hes realli looking at me or not..??.. help/

I think you should give it a chance and talk to him. Say something like "hay I've been seeing you everywhere *laugh*" Then just let things go from there!
Hope I could help!

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