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I like this boy, he likes me. My mom won't let me date yet. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!?!? (link)
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I think that you should ask your mom why she won't let you date. It could be a reason that she is not telling you. Maybe she is afraid you are going to get hurt and she doesnt want to see you like that. I need alittle more information other than she wont let you, to give you a better answer. Like, did she give you a reason or did she just say no. If she just said no, usually that means that as a parent she is not ready to let you date. Maybe she got her heart broken at one point in time by someone that she thought really liked her. I think you two need to sit down and talk about why she wont let you. Conversation is the key here. If you dont talk about the things that are bothering you or the the things that you want, then you two need to work on having a better relationship. I personally think that you need to talk to her about it more or at least give me more info on her reason why you are not allowed to date. Let me know more info and i might be able to help more. Good luck and i hope to get more info on this soon...
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well i read the advice thing about the guy being shy by not telling my friend he liked me. thanks i appreciated it (: . yeah so today at the end of the day..he and his friend were sitting behind this girl michelle. so yeah he was like, "haha michelle you have no one to talk to in here", and then he was asking her and his friend, these ela questions cause he needed help or whatever(and since they are all in the same ela class), he was smiling a lot. So i asked my friend, "is he always this way to michelle?" and she said, "no" then she said they argue a lot in ela class ( seriously argue not jokingly) so i was wondering does this mean he doesnt like me or he does.. i dont know if he was being this way cause i was there or he really likes michelle. he did look at me during quiet study ( last period class) but that was towards the end of quiet study. What do you think this means? was he trying to make me jealous or does he really seriously like michelle.
thanks in advance! (link)
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Okay... im glad your asking me another question... id be happy to explain... I think that he was just trying to make you jealous. You said that he needed help answering a question. So maybe he was being nice to her so that she would help him. Us girls like the attention guys give us no matter if it is positive or negative. I think this guy really does like you. If he is starring at you that much then he likes you. Guys think that if they make the girl they like jealous then the girl will flirt more or initiate the relationship... If your to scared to ask him if he likes you then the next time he looks at you... wink. Then look away... The next time he looks at you.... blow a kiss only using your lips. And this time, smile afterwards. This should work. That way your not really talking to him but your showing him that you are interested. Take my advice and try those two things before some other girl gets his attention. Guys do move on if the girl they like is not showing any emotion back. So you better get him before someone elso does. Do the two things i told you and then come back and tell me how he reacted. I might be able to tell you what to do next depending on his reactions. Good luck hun and keep me posted....
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whats the diff between lust and love
we've had sex already!!!
and he still likes kickin-it w/ me (link)
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Okay... lust is when you are not in love with the person and what your doing is just plain fun. Such as sex. Sex is different when you are in love. Making love and having sex are two different things. So you need to decide which one you are doing. I myself am happily married and what we do in bed is making love. What i used to do with him and other guys was just having sex. It was all fun and didnt really mean anything. I understand he like kickin it with you. But didnt you say that he doesnt know if he feels the same way you do? Give me more and I may be able to answer you better.
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ok me and my boyfriend have had anal sex. it doesnt hurt bc he uses alot of lube im never doing it again though bc it wasnt that enjoyable but i just started my period in the summer and ik there supposed to be irregular when you first start and i havent had mine in forever. Im really scared that i could be pregnant bc i havent had it and my stomach feels really weird but maybe its just because im freaking out. when we do it i wear a tampon just so it wont go in but i cant remember if i took it out before he cummed idk what to do any suggestions? (link)
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To be blunt with you.... Before you started having sex and acting like a grown-up maybe you should have studied some facts about your period. You NEVER EVER have sex with a tampon in.... NEVER!!!!! It probably wasnt enjoyable because you had a tampon in. And then his penis. If you dont even know the facts about your period then maybe you shouldnt be having sex. That is what condoms are for. NO CONDOMS = NO SEX!!!!! Simple as that. You need to go to a doctor. Your stomach feels weird because you had sex with a tampon in. You do understand that you can die from TSS. Before you decide to play a grown up i suggest you learn about sex and tampons first.
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Hello....lol
background: I have a guy friend and he says i'm one of his best friends. I told him i liked him like 5 months ago..but it didn't ruin the friendship. Then about 2 months after that, I asked him did he like me more than a friend and he said no...i only asks becuz i thought he really did like me....
Ok..So i have this guy friend named david and we are good friends and i use to crush on him but he has a GF.
NOW: I was talking to my guy friend on the comp about 3 days ago. I told him, "I'm think i'm gunna ask david to come with me to church this saturday." He said, "Ok..like i care."...and i said, "why so you always act like this?!" He said, "becuze i'm not interested."
What does that mean?...after that happened i signed off and we haven't talked since. I'm not talking to him. He can call me..and then i'll talk.
also..one time we were passing notes in church adn i was telling him what i thought david was gettin me for x-mas. and he wrote, "cool"...when i asked him why..he said he was jealous. So the next time he said cool after i talked about a guy..i asked himm why he says cool...and he got defense and asked me who asks what cools means..he said cool is just cool....Is he jealous or does he like me?..i'm really conufused. (link)
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Definately jealous and does like you. He's scared to admit that he likes you and I think its hard for him to see you talk about another guy. Especially since he does like you more than a friend. Try not talking about other guys around him. That really does not help anything. That only makes them drift further and further away. Try talking to him and explaining that you like him and that he can tell you if he likes you back. Good luck hunny
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ok im on birth control and i got it from my pediatrician last year. she gave me a year worth. well in may ill need a nw prescription. my mom says i have to go see the gynocologist because ive been sexually active. imnervous about the appointment. i dotn want somebody to be feeling my insides that i dont know. what is goign to happen at the exam? (link)
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This is normal.... for you to be scared that is. I was nervous my first time too. But the exam is just to make sure you dont have any diseases or cervical cancer. It is actually better for you and your body. They will probably do a papsmere. It really doesnt hurt. Just know that this test can only be done if you have been sexually active. They cannot do it if you have. It really will hurt then. They dont actually touch you with their hands. They use a plastic object that they put jelly on and stick into your vaginal area. It may feel alittle cold at first. But thats also normal. They then open it alittle so they can see inside but i promise this does not hurt. They take a plastic scrapper and scrape some samples from your vaginal walls. This also does not hurt, I barely felt it. It may tickle a little but doesnt hurt. I promise their is nothing to be scared of and it wont hurt. Just remember that they do this everyday, and they see it all the time so yours really wont make a difference. Afterwards, they tell you about some common diseases. This is only to make you aware. I promise you wont feel like you are in health class. Some of it is information that they dont give. This is only for your benefit. So good luck and remember to be brave.
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well this guy sat next to me last year. we became friends really good friends. He would flirt with me and i could tell he liked me.. all my friends said he deffinatly did.. but i never told him my true feelings because we were such good friends because i didnt want to lose him as a friend if he said he didnt like me so yeah then summer came and i saw him again in september (for school). And he would look alot at me. Many times we would make eye contact. and like 2 or so weeks ago my friend caught him talking to his friend saying he liked me and all this other stuff. And so like 4 days ago she asked him, "do u like(she said my name" and he said nope. and then my friend was going to leave and he said ,"i know she likes me." so my friend was confused because he said i know she likes me really happilly. well yesterday at school been wierd i caught him multiple times looking at me and he seems to be more shy. But today he was looking at me through the corners of his eyes. And i saw him look at me alot of times. He didnt really seem shy today.. he looked at me a lot. So i dont know what this all means? Please give some advice. Thanks in advance! (link)
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This is so my area... I am happy to help on this one. Sometimes your best friend can be more then just a friend. You feel comfortable with them and since you are friends they know everything about you. Such as, your likes and your dislikes.... It is actually better that he is your friend but now you think he likes you more. This gives you a better chance at the relationship working out. Theres really not much more to know about each other. I think that he said he didnt like you because he was scared. Guys dont really liked be bumbarded like that. It scares them and makes them nervous. Sending your best friend to do the work also didnt help. Its better if you do the asking. If your a shy person, maybe you can write him a note and tell him how you feel. But i suggest you talk to him face to face. Let your feelings come from the heart. If you tell him how you feel and he doesnt want to be friends anymore then he really wasnt your friend at all. Friends listen to what each other have to say and dont judge them on how they feel. I think he really does like you and hes scared to tell you. Guys do get scared you know. Especially around a girl that he cares about. Staring at you all the time is also a dead give a way. Good luck and i hope you do the right thing by telling him how you really feel.... in person.
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my boyfriend's friends jsut passed away. HE's doing stupid things and using their names as an excuse. HE's taking it really hard. I was wondering if theres anything i can do to make him feel better?
right now i don't know what to do. i really want to help him..
please help. asap. thnx so much. (link)
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I am sorry for his loss. I know how hard it can be to lose someone you care about. You need to sit him down and let him know that doing stupid things is not going to bring them back. Also, let him know that you are there for him. Tell him that if he needs to talk then youll be there to listen. He really needs to talk about it. Doing stupid things and keeping it bottled up is not going to make things better. Talking is the best way to help him right now. If that doesnt work then I suggest you to persuade him to go and speak with a grief counselor. They are specialized in that and they know exactly how to help. You can usually find them in your local area. Sometimes regular counselors can also help if he is not willing to talk to you. Good Luck and i hope this will help you out
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13/f
my parents won't let me have a boyfriend only because they didnt date people until they were in college. i know they want to protect me but this is really bothering me because everyone else is going off and having fun with there boyfriends when i can't have one.
so does anybody know any things i could persuade them with? i dont want to bring it up like I WANT TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND. i just want it to kind of..come into the conversation. if you know what i mean, but any help is fine. THANKS IN ADVANCE! (link)
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I think I may be able to help with this one. Let me start by asking, " If everyone jumped off a bridge would you do it too?" Just because everyone else is doing it is not a good reason. That answer never worked for me and I doubt it will work for you. I think that they are just trying to protect you and they dont want you to get hurt. You also need to understand where they are coming from. To start with, you might want to ask them if you can go to a movie or go study with a boy before you ask to have a boyfriend. You need to get to know a guy first. Asking parents to let you date is not a good way to start out. You have to gradually work your way to that. So just start with the movie or the studying thing. I hope I have helped.
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Oh, here it goes(sryy this is kinda long)... My friend, Lexi, is well liked by everyone. She's really cool, and we are pretty much best friends. No prob, right? Well, a couple years ago, in sixth grade, this girl (lets call her Polly) was my best friend, and in the first part of seventh grade, but now Lexi hates her. so im just sitting there, like what? So theres this other girl(Nikki) who i LOATHE entirely, and my Polly is now best friends with her, and i feel us drifting away, and now Polly is terrible. She took on a totally different personality. Like she is absolutely annoying and loud and obnoxious, and I want to kill this other girl, Nikki. Partly because she copies every little thing people do (my pet peeve) and now Polly is doing that. So I hate her a little, but I still remember when Polly and I were best friends. I want to be friends with her again but i cant be with her when she's with Nikki, so I need to split them up. Although I really want to be friends with both Polly and Lexi, because they both are really cool and nice. But I can't if Nikki is around. Here are my question for you, okay?
1. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2. How should I go about doing this?
Thanks a bunch! 14/f (link)
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WOW!!!! This is a hard one. First of all, If you want to be friends with Polly again... I think that you need to talk to her about how you are drifting apart. If she really is or ever was your friend, she will listen to what you have to say. And if she doesnt, then you dont need someone who backstabs your friendship. A real and true friend stick with you no matter how many new friends they have. About Nikki.... maybe you are just not getting to know the real her. Have you ever thought that maybe she copies people because she looks up to them? Like a role model. Thats not such a bad thing you know. That used to be one of my pet peeves too. But then I learned that sometimes people copy you because they look up to you. I think that Lexi also may need to get to know Polly and maybe she will find out things that she didnt know before. Splitting them up is not a good idea. That is just going to backfire in your face. Being a bitch gets you know where. And that is exactly what you will be if you go about it in that kind of way. Conversation is a powerful thing and it takes awhile to really get to know someone. Always remember also... Hate is a stong word and I think you really need to understand someone as a person before you go around trying to get rid of people!!! LOL If the conversation thing does not work for you then I think she isnt a good friend at all and I think in the future you should choose your friends wisely. Friends dont backstab each other or leave them when they find another friend. They stay true to each other. Good Luck!!! If you have anymore questions, I would be happy to help you out.
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http://l.yimg.com/img.tv.yahoo.com/tv/us/img/site/48/99/0000034899_20061021033218.jpg
how does she (peyton sawyer/hilarie burton) get her hair to have so much volume on the top with curls and with bangs?
is it possible to do your hair like that without a curling iron?
like if you have naturally wavy/curly hair and just scrunch it or something (link)
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This is the answer to your questions about One Tree Hill hun!!!!
Peyton quit her job because her boss made her unbutton her shirt to get her into a meeting. She found new bands and her boss wouldnt listen to them. He told her that if she wanted to get into the meeting then to unbutton her shirt. I think that she quit mostly because she called Lucus and told him how much she missed everything and needed a home again. I dont know about nathan yet. they havent really said. I think that Hayley is going to leave him though. I know that he is drinking alot. So i guess we will both have to wait and see about nathan!!! From now on you can leave me personal questions in my box
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Okay so theres this guy that i really like ..
Hes 18 only two and 4 months older then me and he had a girlfriend that hes always off and on with but see even when hes on with her hes always trying to get with me and he tells me he really does like and isn't using me or anything like that but whenever im able to do something hes not and when hes able to do something im not ..
And like I really really like him and and i think im falling for him (not in love) and i just don't know what to do with him because i want him to be all mine but the problem is that hes going back and forth between me and his ex
but im not one of those girls who make people choose i dont like that so i just dont want to do about him should i give up or should i keep trying to make him mine?
HELP!!! =/ (link)
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okay, lets see if I can help you out on this one. If your wanting honest advice then here it is. First of all, if he says that he really likes you and is not using you then why is going back and forth between you and his ex? That sounds to me like he is and he's just telling you what you want to hear. Guys do that to make themselves look in front of a girl. I myself have actually been in this situation and I got out of it. You deserve someone who wants to be with you all the time and not keep going back to another girl. Believe me when I tell you, hes not worth it hun. I dont understand the part about you falling for him. You say you are but you also say that your not falling in love. So in closing, if you are falling in love then maybe you should tell him how you feel. If your not in love, then I think its just lust. So if you dont want a relationship with him then just keep doing what your doing. But if you want more then you need to tell him that if you are going to be with him, he needs to commit to you and only you.
Another piece of advice, stop talking to him for awhile and let him come to do. That might make him commit to you if your wanting a relationship.
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so me and my guy have been dating for 15th months! i love him soo much! we we're each other's firsts for EVERYTHING except making out...i'm 16 he is 17...he's the kinda guy that is really moody like his dad...and stubborn... me and him have had some really big fights and stuff like that...he's cheated on my twice and i know about them but i've also cheated on him twice which he doesn't know about...i've been stressing out alot about our relationship because i really don't want to lose him...how can i make our relationship healthier? i do call him alot and everytime we are at his house we have sex..how can i change our relationship for the better? and don't just say to stop having sex...and idk if we should break up or not...we really don't want to cause we are like co-dependant on each other..oh and we both get really mad at each other over stu[id things sometimes.. (link)
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Wow. I hope I can help on this one and you may or may not like what I have to say. Some people say that you dont know what love is a 16 or 17 but I disagree. I myself fell in love at 15, got married at 17, and now still happily married. Relationships have their ups and downs. But you two cheating on each other is not going to make your relationship a healthy relationship. First I would let him know that you did cheat on him because honesty is the best way to go. You dont want to have skeletons in your closet when he finds out about it in the long run. Second of all, relationships are not based on sex. Just so you know that. I dont think that it was right for you too to cheat on each other. That tells me that if you are really in love then you wouldnt cheat on each other. Another thing, in a relationship you cant depend on each other. As an adult, I can tell you that I think that you need some time to yourself. You need to become independent and dont depend on anyone but yourself. You need to think about the fact that you may not be together 2 or 3 years down the road. You need to become independent now so in the future you dont feel like you need someone to make you a person. The best luck to you and if you need anymore advice let me know.
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15/female
lately i've been really horny. i try fingering myself but that doesn't really cure it at all. how do i stip getting like this, or how can i satisfy myself better if you know what i mean?
THANKS. (link)
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Hmmmm, this is a hard one but I will do my best. Alot of younger girl feel this way at this age. I know I did. You might try rubbing your clit (clitourous) or by buyig yourself a viberator. If you need more suggestions I would try reading a magazine called "Cosmopolitan." They have some great tips also. Good luck and I hope I have helped.
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okayyy well i haven't had sex since about november sometime towards to end.
i was suppose to start my period december 17th but i didn't! i took 2 pregnancy tests and they both said not pregnant...
i still haven't had my period at allll.
what is wrong with me????? (link)
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I would be happy to answer your question... First of all, I don't think that you are pregnant. Periods can be irregular and that is normal. You might need to ask your parents to take you to your doctor and get you on birth control. Birth control can regulate your periods and keep them on the same schedule. If you are physically active then that could also make them irregular. Stress can also cause your periods to be irregular. I would try going to the doctor and talking to them about it. Good luck and come talk to me if you need anymore advice.
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