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please give advice!
well this guy sat next to me last year. we became friends really good friends. He would flirt with me and i could tell he liked me.. all my friends said he deffinatly did.. but i never told him my true feelings because we were such good friends because i didnt want to lose him as a friend if he said he didnt like me so yeah then summer came and i saw him again in september (for school). And he would look alot at me. Many times we would make eye contact. and like 2 or so weeks ago my friend caught him talking to his friend saying he liked me and all this other stuff. And so like 4 days ago she asked him, "do u like(she said my name" and he said nope. and then my friend was going to leave and he said ,"i know she likes me." so my friend was confused because he said i know she likes me really happilly. well yesterday at school been wierd i caught him multiple times looking at me and he seems to be more shy. But today he was looking at me through the corners of his eyes. And i saw him look at me alot of times. He didnt really seem shy today.. he looked at me a lot. So i dont know what this all means? Please give some advice. Thanks in advance!
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This is so my area... I am happy to help on this one. Sometimes your best friend can be more then just a friend. You feel comfortable with them and since you are friends they know everything about you. Such as, your likes and your dislikes.... It is actually better that he is your friend but now you think he likes you more. This gives you a better chance at the relationship working out. Theres really not much more to know about each other. I think that he said he didnt like you because he was scared. Guys dont really liked be bumbarded like that. It scares them and makes them nervous. Sending your best friend to do the work also didnt help. Its better if you do the asking. If your a shy person, maybe you can write him a note and tell him how you feel. But i suggest you talk to him face to face. Let your feelings come from the heart. If you tell him how you feel and he doesnt want to be friends anymore then he really wasnt your friend at all. Friends listen to what each other have to say and dont judge them on how they feel. I think he really does like you and hes scared to tell you. Guys do get scared you know. Especially around a girl that he cares about. Staring at you all the time is also a dead give a way. Good luck and i hope you do the right thing by telling him how you really feel.... in person.
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He probably LIKES you. I mean, some guys aren't going to tell the person they like's friend that they like you...it's just not what they do because they know it gets around. And if he looks at you a lot, he is into you, look at him too, that's probably what he wants. Oh, and you should talk to him also, because he would like that...boys will be boys, some get shy when they know you like them, in his case, thats what he does. Good luck!
Hope sparks fly between you two :] (but they already did haha)
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