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Okay so theres this guy that i really like ..
Hes 18 only two and 4 months older then me and he had a girlfriend that hes always off and on with but see even when hes on with her hes always trying to get with me and he tells me he really does like and isn't using me or anything like that but whenever im able to do something hes not and when hes able to do something im not ..
And like I really really like him and and i think im falling for him (not in love) and i just don't know what to do with him because i want him to be all mine but the problem is that hes going back and forth between me and his ex
but im not one of those girls who make people choose i dont like that so i just dont want to do about him should i give up or should i keep trying to make him mine?
HELP!!! =/
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This is a tricky situation to be in. He clearly doesn't know how he feels between the two of you and he's trying to sort them out and make a choice between the two of you.
Don't force him to make any choice, let him come to his choice in his own time and see what happens. I can imagine that this is frustrating, but after a while (give it three days), ask him what his feelings are about you.
I hope this helps,
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okay, lets see if I can help you out on this one. If your wanting honest advice then here it is. First of all, if he says that he really likes you and is not using you then why is going back and forth between you and his ex? That sounds to me like he is and he's just telling you what you want to hear. Guys do that to make themselves look in front of a girl. I myself have actually been in this situation and I got out of it. You deserve someone who wants to be with you all the time and not keep going back to another girl. Believe me when I tell you, hes not worth it hun. I dont understand the part about you falling for him. You say you are but you also say that your not falling in love. So in closing, if you are falling in love then maybe you should tell him how you feel. If your not in love, then I think its just lust. So if you dont want a relationship with him then just keep doing what your doing. But if you want more then you need to tell him that if you are going to be with him, he needs to commit to you and only you.
Another piece of advice, stop talking to him for awhile and let him come to do. That might make him commit to you if your wanting a relationship.
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