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I'm honest, out-spoken, open-minded; whatever you would like to call it. Some people say its being a bitch; save it, I dont want to hear it. I will answer your questions with truthfully. If I hurt your feelings; I'm sorry. But please try to understand I am just being honest. I don't like when people aren't themselves only because they're trying to "fit in". This world starves for some originality. I've been through things; so I can try to relate to whatever. I can see things through other peoples eyes; so I will try to help any way I can. =]

ABOUT ME: Hi! The name's Emily; I have a lot of nicknames though, lol. I'm 14, and a freshman. I'm just having fun in life; it's kinda my thing. You only live once, right? So I'm intend to live it to its fullest! I love to meet new people; it's like finding money! Friends, brothers + music are my life; they pick me up when I'm down. I'm short and quorky; I love it. I make wierd faces; I sing and dance anywhere. So what? I don't get embarressed anymore; natrually because I've too many embarressing things and its a waste of time. I don't care what anyone says about me; I find it funny. I'm clumsy; I'm always falling for something. I'm always cold too; it's annoying and wierd. I wear a bow in my hair almost everyday; I'm sorta known for it, lol. The little things mean the most. I'm way far from perfect; and I wouldn't want it any other way. I make mistakes; everyday. I learn from my mistakes, so I think of them as a good thing. I'm incredebly ticklish; but I secretly love it =]. I want to make sometimes of myself; and I will. I'm going to open up my own cafe; its my dream job and I'll do it some how.

LOVER OF: coffee, green stride gum, vitamin water, candy necklaces, gobstoppers, snickers, zebras, acoustics, hello kitty, cinnamin, semi-colons, Disney movies, old movies, music, sweet-tea, crush sodas, rain, polaroids, pictures, will ferrel, dane cook, tyra banks, bows, tattoos, big beds, pillows, blankies, balloons, bright colors, chapstick, vicks vapor shit, roller coasters, inside jokes, hugs + kisses, snuggling, dancing around + singing into anything, anything comfy, bunny slippers, the little things, knee-high socks.

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What kind of music do Tomboys listen to?

Whatever. They're like everyone else, they have their own preference. If you're talking about anyone in perticular, ask them.

At my school everyone is very big on cliques. Theres the Girly Girls, Emos, Goths, and Spunkys. I am not in a clique, I'm a Tomboy and the boys dont have cliques so I hang with them. All the girls say aleast I have friends that are girls and stuff like that. I want the cliques to stop what should I do. Thanks in advance.

I know, cliques are really annoying and pointless. But theres really nothing you can do. They will nothing stop. Just stay with your friends and ignore them.

i need a cute NOT COUNTRY/BLUEGRASS love song to put on my myspace for valentines day. any suggestions?

anything by Tristan Prettyman or Sara Bareilles.
Brighter Than Sunshine -Aqualung
Hold Me Down -Motion City Soundtrack
Kiss Me - New Found Glory (or) Sixpence None The Richer.
Such Great Heights -The Postal Service
My Beautiful Rescue -This Providence

hope that helped! And happy (early) valentines day! lol.

hey. well i really wanna learn how to play guitar. but i really don't think i couldn teach myself. is it really hard to take lessons from someone?? is it really hard to learn to play? i really wanna be able to do it. oh yeah, i wanna play acustic. not electric. but any advice would be great!!!!!!!!!!! thanks a bunch

it's easier to get lessons or get some one to teach you. But you really have to want to play. Cause when you first start; you just learn the cords, and its boring. That's why I quit my lessons.

My birthday is coming up and my parents said that they would get me a new camera for it because the one i have now was a freebe. Basically, I want to know which cameras you have PERSONALLY used and are really good. What brands are good as well also?

thanks and price doesn't matter.
preferably over $100 tho because otherwise its probably not a good one.

I have a Canon Powershot. I'm not sure which one. lol. But it works really good. Canons in general are good.
Don't get a HP, they suck. I had one and it would always crash and eventually it just stopped working. I didnt even have it for a year.
Hope that helped.

what are some great friendship songs like your a really great friend and im going to really miss you when you leave what are some songs like that

"Always You (Good Times)" -Amber Pacific
maybe something by Tristan Prettyman.

right now, those are the only ones I can think of.

16/F

My friend whom I care about alot has been heading down the wrong path for quite some time. I was best friends with him last year, then we just stopped talking because of what he started doing. We are still friends though, we just havent talked alot [make sense?] he just recently moved out of his house into an appartment, and dropped out of school. He is now into hard drugs and alcohal. How can i help him straighten up? he has already gone to rehab, which obviously didnt help too much. But i really want to get him out of drugs and into JESUS! haha.
How can i tell him i care for him, and i dont want to watch him kill himself any more?
but i dont want to sound tooo much like im in love with him or something.
thanks!

Like the other person said, he has to do it on his own.
But just get people who care about him, or just you, and tell him that you care about him and just say how you feel about. Hopefully it will be a wake-up call, and he'll understand. But no one can help him unless he wants help.

15/f

I think im addicted to masterbating, and watching p0rn.
but i dont want to be.
you see my parents work at the church. and im sorda a really good kid, so i dont want to live this lifestyle. but every so often i have to go to youtube or whatever to look up bad things. and every night in the shower i use the showerhead to masterbate. I also do that in my bed. No one would ever suspect this of me. I am a perfect goody good. so should i be doing this?
is it normal? or should i stop?
if so, how can i stop?
and if i SHOULD be doing this, where can i see more footage, without looking up keywords like "sex'
because my dad has a fire wall on all the computers, and he can see everywhere i go.

Like everyone else said, its completely normal. The only two sites I know of are..
www.pornotube.com
www.youporn.com.

I need some new ways to put on my eyeliner! As of right now, I just put it below my eye (above the lashes) and on my eyelid right by my top eyelashes. I like to make it as black and thick as possible. :]

So what tips do you have to spice up my eye makeup? Please, nothing complicated. All I have is black brown & gray stick eyeliner, black & brown liquid eyeliner, and black eyeshadow.

when I wear black eyeliner on the top this is what I do;
I start in the middle or a little further and go out. I make it thin. Then I'll go over it again and make it thicker as I go out, so its like a "negative slope" lol. I usually wing it too. You can make the wing as small or as big as you want. you can angle it, or add something at the end, like a swirl or something. Just mess around with it. But like the other girl said, you should get colored eyeliner, its something different and really cute.

I googled pictures, but they didnt really have any. Sorry. But I hope that helped! =]

ok well i'm my boyfriends 1st girlfriend and he's not my first but the only on i actally cared about and & none of us never tongue kissed before ... like he tries 2 but i break a way cusz i feel like i dont know wat i'm doiing becuase i dont!!!!
all we do is tap and yeah i want 2 go deeper and us tounge but i dont kno how??? & our friendsz keep asking if we did it yet and itsz so embarrising 2 saii no since i really want to. so how do u tounge kiss?????

www.wikihow.com. and then go to make-out. it has tips and what to do. But like the others said, you really have to be relaxed, like sleeping, you can't sleep if you're nervous and stressed.

well i love music i listen to it alot!!!....and im kinda getting tired of my music i have on my ipod i like to listen to alot of rock hard rock and i recently been getting into all that screaming crap but i only like the sound of the guitar solos....i like music like slipknot avenged sevenfold deftones i want more and need new music help on suggestions? and im also looking for calm music like acustic would be nice but in rock and love and hurt songs also in rock.

I absolutly love Escape The Fate and Atreyu. The Blood Brothers are one of my favorites; they have a different sound, and they scream too. But they're probably something you've never heard before, you either love them or hate them. Deffently check them out. Brand New is amazing too, thats calmer. Hmm.. Tyler Read, The Used, Armor For Sleep, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Funeral For A Friend. Those are some good ones. I could go on and on..

17/f. I want to colour my hair with something that won't last for too long. I know where I can get those products.
But I'm not sure how to apply it.
I have a sort of scene/mulletish haircut and I'm not sure where to put the colours in my hair.
Can anyone help?

xx

I dye my hair at least once a month lol. So yeah, you deffently have to get a friend to make sure you get it everywhere evenly. I always start at the roots, cause thats the most important, then get everywhere else. but you have to have order with it, not just do as you please and jump around. When you're done putting it in, get a comb, and comb it through to make it more even. Oh and, when you put the dye in, it might make your hair more knotty, just a warning for when you brush it through. lol.

I recently pierced my nose myself (last thursday)
Since then, it hasn't gotten infected, it's just a little red (obviously)
I would like to keep it this way- I hear dial soap is good- should I continue using that? I've also been using alcohol- but I think that's drying out the outside of the piercing.
any tips on the best way to keep it clean and possibly make the redness/dryness go away?
thanks in advance ! (:

My friend got hers peirced, and she got a bump or something on it. She crushed up and asprin and put it on there and let it sit for a while. You probably have to mix it with water..

what are some good techno songs/artists?

ravers fantasy.
My favorite song is of the same name

hmmmm..im thinking wether or not to have sex with somone i dont really like. but he likes me. what do you think?

if you don't like him, don't have sex with him just so you don't hurt his feelings or whatever. If you're a virgin; thats something you'll never get back. If you're not; its just not worth it.

Ok, so my friends at the last minute pulled out of hanging out tomorrow, so I decided to have a day in the city by myself. I'll stay in crowds so don't worry about my safety!

Anyway, my city has nothing special so don't bother saying 'I don't know what's in your city so I can't say' just...

Well my question is what would you do if you were by yourself and you were in your city's CBD. I'm probably going to eat lunch then go to the state library, you know stuff like that. I'll only take about 50 bucks, 20 for drinks, snacks and lunch and 30 to spend on shopping.

So yeah.

In most citys you can normally find really cool coffee shops. Like in Pittsburgh, we have the Beehive. You have to look though. Just walk around and you'll be surprised what you'll find. Theres normally rad shops you can find too, like little boutiques and what not. You just have to look.

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 15 months i'm 16 he's 17 and we've done everything....but lately he's been acting weird....sometimes when we hang out he is amazing but last night we were with my best friend and her boyfriend watching a movie and he was being sooooo weird most of the time he was high and i know that but idk if that really changes anything...he has cheated on me 2 time possible three...the last time he doesn't know if he did or not cause he was drunk...blacked out drunk....but last night i went to look at his phone and he had deleated his call log..and he recently changed his password so i can't get on his myspace...can anyone give me any insight on what is happening in this relationship? and can anyone give me any advice on what to do with those sercumstances?

ohhhh p.s. yesterday is the last time he could smoke weed cause his parents caught him saturday when he came home high..

He's probably cheating on you. Thats what it seems like to me. And he might find another way to smoke. But you need to talk to him, when hes acting amazing like you said. But not when hes drunk or anything. But it deffently seems like hes hiding something from you.

15/f, this might be long, sorry.

i've had bulimia for over a year and i don't know what to do. part of me wants to get help and part of doesn't want to change or let go of something thats been a part of me for so long. i know that sounds crazy but yeah i don't know. i read about how you can die but i never think that it's gonna happen to me, like i've never known anyone who has so it's like a seeing is believing thing for me. i basically throw up everything i eat, and i probably purge atleast two to three times a day because i don't eat breakfast or lunch. to this doesn't seem like a bad thing and i don't know. it's only been a little over a year so i don't think it's that bad. would i have to like go to a rehab center or something? i don't think i could talk about it to anyone. i've never actually said it out loud that i'm bulimic just in writing. my mom found out i purged once and never did anything and now she's worried about it ever since. i just denied everyhting but yeah i don't know what to do. how/if i should ask for help.

any advice on what i should do or how/why i should get help, thanks :]

A little over a year is bad. And just cause you don't know anyone who died doesnt mean it won't happen to you. It could happen to anyone. If you want to get help, you don't have to go to rehab. You can go to a theripist. Just make sure you get one you like, obviously. If you're worried about your weight, just eat healthy and exercise. Start off slow though. Like eat small salads/small meals once or twice a day. But don't purge after. On how to tell someone; just sit your mom down, or some one you're really close to and tell them. And let them know you want to get help. Eventually you have to tell one of your parents though. And I know how you feel about letting go, my story isnt technically the same though. For about 2 or 3 weeks, I just started throwing up every morning, it was out of my control. I lost 4 lbs. in 2 weeks. I don't think I'm fat at all, but it was nice. For some reason I still get this little urge to throw up. But I just tell myself not to get into that. You need to find some other hobby you love to keep your mind off it too. I hope I helped =]

does any one know any cool rockish pop songs. something like what all american rejects would have. but not like them and fall out boy, p@td those kinds of bands.

"Pin Your Wings" & "You Have My Attention" -Copeland
anything by All Time Low
"Foreign Language" -Anberlin
anything by Boys Like Girls
anything from Brand New. (favorite band)
"Bring Me Everything" -The City Drive
"Taking It All Back" -Count The Stars
"Forever" -Edison Glass
"Tonight" -FM Static
"Until We Get Caught" & "Head Over Heels" -Hit The Lights
"We Intertwined" & "Wine Red" -The Hush Sound (went on tour with p@td. great show!)
"Dog-Eared Page" & "Sick Little Suicide" -The Matches
anything by Mayday Parade
"For Fiona" -No Use For A Name
"Middle Of The Night" -Sherwood
"Private School Girls" -Tyler Read

I put a variety. Hope you like them!

when is best time to have sex while pregant month? 5 or 6 month?

http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/pregnancy_newborn/pregnancy/sex_pregnancy.html

i looked it. It has some good stuff. lol.

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