about

I'm 15/f

i like to have fun and go out with my freinds!

I been through soo much and gotten enough advice to help you!

I helped many people befor and i was happy with the results!

im a consulure at my skool people ussaly come to me for there promblems! and i love helping!@


i play volleyball and gymnastics and cheer and basketball and cross country so im a busy girl..



well just go on iwth ur questons and il help

advice

i have a crush on this guy in my class
we sit next to each other but never talk, so one day i wanted to ask him to this dance that our school will be held, but i don't have the guts too so my friend did it for me, she passed him a note asking if he wanted to go to the dance with me, he rejected it by saying he doesn't like to go to dances, i was sad and didn't know what to do, but den i still acted like nothing happened and told him its okay even though i got rejected, but deep inside i'm so sad and don't know how to face him in the future knowing that he knows i have a crush on him. what can i do??

heyy,
dont worry about it just don't not tlak to him.
u should acutally start flirting with him more and getting to know him nad totally acted like nothing is akward or nothing happen cause if you dnot tlak to him it WILL become akward so just really talk to him as much as you can.



im most definate it will work!

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Im 14 years old and a female. theres this boy and he likes me a lot and wants to date me. i kind of have been leading him on and i likED him a lot. so basically i dont like him as any more than a friend any more, how should i tell him? is texting him okay?

texting him would be fine if you guys are having a long convo. JUst be like
"i can't date at all right now, i got so much going on i can''t even deal with a boyfriend,and right now all i need is a good freind by my side like u"



hopefully it will work!

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Ok well when i was wlaking home from school this guy ws flirting with me and I only said two things to him (one thing was my age).

I couldn't hlep it because i always thought I was so ugly and no guys ever talked to me before so it was just a first reaction.

And my neighbor was RIGHT there too walking his dog!!!

Will my parents know? Is it likely he'll tell? It was just a one time thing I swear!

hey,
im pretty sure you nieghbor wont because for one its NONE of his businsee, and if he tells you can say it was your freinds brother or something make up a person


but over all the neighbor shouldnt tell its not even there businse


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Im a 17 and i have a really abusive brother. How can i deal with him without callin the cops? should i tell my bf and gf or Friends?

heyy. i have the same promblem but with 3 brothers!!pretty harsh right,


you tell the girlfriend , i awlways do and she calms him down and helps me explain to him how i feel! it works, the freinds wont listen unless its a girl, all girls will help you. trust just tell his gf when ever you get hit and she will be there to help.

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My boyfriend is taking advantage of me and threatens to hurt me if i don't make-out with him or have sex with him and i'm still a virgin but i don't know how long i can hold out for!

you should not break up with him just stop answering his calls or even talk to him. cause this has happend to me,

just ignore him every where u go even in school, stay with your ffreinds as much as you can and if it gets worst you have to go to an adult! i no it sounds stupid but it breaks down to that, just tell him you lost your phone or something

kk

it worked with me hopefully with you

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Hi there. =)

Okay, my ex had told his friends that I was a bad kisser, and one of is friends relayed that back to me. He was my first boyfriend, so I'm convinced I could have been bad at it...so any help, advice, or experiences would be very much appreciated!

Thanks a bunch!

okay don't listen to there bull
x-boyfreinds always do that so they can show they hot and there cool,


to find out the real truth you got to kiss a differnt guy and see what he says, im pretty sure your boyfreind is trying to sound like he hot crap and he knows whats a good kiss and a bad,
hes prob the bad one and blaming it on you,,


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Is there a way or website to put the pictures you want on a website and order the prints you want in any size you need? I know wal-mart does it but they only let you do three sizes.

there photobucket.com


you can also just go on google and look for one its quicker

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okay so my name is kristin and i have not made out or kissed anyone yet and i am planing to go to the movies with this guy and he wants to make out and i want to too. i told him that i have made out b4 too. how do you make out? and also is it okay to make out with my retainer in because if i take it out i have a missing tooth HELP!!!

okay this mightt sound gay but u have to mashage each toher toughs like dont stick ur toughe stright in go in slowly and relax and switch sides evey so often


tel me if it works

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This is the deal... my best friend hates
my guts :( . We've always been really close
and this is our first fight. You dont really
need to know but I'll tell you... I went out with
her ex-boyfriend 2 months after they broke up
... long long long story but shes been really upset with me this week. Tomorrow's her birthday .. and well I am making her a card. To apologize and tell her how much I love her and how
this dumb guy shouldnt get inbetween us. Can I have some things to say ?? I dont want it to sound like I'm sucking up .. but basicly its the truth i do love her very much and I want to tell her. Also I make lame/cute cards for all my friend son their birthdays so this is nothing new. Does anyone have anything good I can write inside? Quotes? Just sayings? Anything? THANKS .xoxox

heres somethings you can say :


- we been best freinds for how long??
and i dont want anything come between us! we been to close for too long! and i dont think this guy should be ruining it!
your like a true sister to me@!! we had the best of times and im not ready or close to anything ready to get rid of that! you been there for everything that i had promblems wiht and u no i alwyas be there to! i love you with all my heart!! i can't belive we let this go on !!! i love ya! trust you wiht everything i say ! and i apoligize soo much with all my heart! your my bffl i and you will always be! and even when were fighting u will be my bffl! i love you sis ! ( thouigh in some inside jokes) and i hope we can still be as close forever !

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i need a good shampoo that won't make my scalp brake out the doctor said that i have seborric dermatitis (sp)? and none of the shampoos like selsun blue or head & shoulders are workingsomeone please help me! also i think i am allergic to aussie that shampoo because after that i got that seborric dermatitis

well acutally!

my bro gf has that! and she been using fruitiess so far and its been working!
her hair looks really good !

i say u use it !

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i need to get my boyfriend a present. [his birthday is on thursday] and i was thinking i wanted to do something cute with like candy and stuff. but i need ideas. help!

haha i had this promblem soo many times but i got the thing!

it depends wat he is lke,

prep, jock, ghetto

if hes prep get him like a funny shirt that has humor on it and calon .

and if hes jock , get huis a football or a picure of a player and such

is if hes ghetto get him one of those sweat shirt wit hte money signs on it or a cool belt .


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but make sure to get him candy adn ur love lol

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i'm having a school problem, and not just the average ones.

Last year i stopped going to school all together for around three weeks, until my parents took action and sent me to a wilderness program in june until august. once i got home and had to start school once again (8th grade), i actually attended the first week of school more or less fine. Come second week, i told myself i plain couldn't do it anymore. For a fear of people or a fear of school.

So the school sat me in a room in the guidance office and basically left me to sit there until now. I had a really tough time even when i didn't have to go to my classes. I managed at least two specials a week (gym), but nothing else. Now i have to go to a class in which i have no friends and feel terrible.

It doesn't sound like much but i don't know what to do. I don't know how to handle this. If i don't go to class this week, i will either have to go to a catholic school, and if we can't find one that will take me now, a thereputic boarding school. I can't stand to be away frfom my family anymore, or my friends. I can't suck it up and just really go to school, because i'm too comfortable where i am and too afraid to go anywhere else.

i don't really know what i'm asking, just for any help. thanks. xx

hey .

i know how ya feel
i was knew to but i was not quite i was loud, just start skool beging lound and out going andn really sweeet. GEt a make over to it might work. Try it dosent work just talk to one person then theyll inturduce you to more people.

hope for luck

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Im really skinny and it's hard to find clothes that fit me that I like. People always say I look really skinny but I eat so much and I still look the same. Is there any way I can gain more weight?

easy answer, work out not running llike lifting and crunshe for ur abbs its will work lol.

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there's this boy me and my friend both like *ted.
he doesn't know we don't like him but we KNOW he don't like us anyway....he like hates us. well anyway, we found a pictures of this girl on the internet (average girl) and made a myspace for her(we named her brooke)...anyway they also started talking on AIM on (brookes) personal s/n that we made her. well he trusts brooke enough to tell her anything (he also says he loves her)....his problems like gangs....drugs vilolence, and about his dad.
his dad was diagnosed with sercousis od the liver. his dad this week was put in hospital at chapal hill (which isn't good) now...yesterday they have him on a breahthing machine. with chrsitmas right around the corner i would hate to see him die...him and *ted are vey close. we want to tell who brooke really is but we think it will be too hard on him with all this other stuff going on. i haven't slept in days...im so worried about him. what do we do?

say it. He has to go trough it . Do u really want something bad to happen then after another bad thing happen. He might not even care he might start trusting the real you. Just say it its gunna make things easier. And he won;t probley talk to you guys for a while but go up to ihim at skool. Talk to his face saying are you okay ? Did we tell you a a abd time? and say i hate lying and i got know you and i kinda like you like that. Then say Where sorry please forgive us and see wat he says. I think its gunna work!


try it please.

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ok well when i was little like 10 i shaved my arms. and i'm 16/female now. and now the hair on my arms is dark. it botherd me some and i wish i'd never did it.now it does bother me.and now other people notice too. its not the fact that i care what other people think but i just dont think i can do anything about it. is their anyway not to make my dark colored anymore? thanks alot.

this is what i did and it worked. First STOP with the shaving, let them grow out then either wax them or get string down. i did both and when i let it grow out after its soft and becomes a lighter color. See shaving dosent go al hte way down its just shave right on top of ur skin. When i get waxing down on my legs i dont even bother to cover it because it no harsh or dark and it take 4 weeks to grow and turn out like when u shave then 3 days ater its hairy, andget threading down to it works like waxeing but a little bit more it works cause you can never break out but wax you might right after but then you lotion it and it goes away. trust me it works.


hoped i helped.

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ok i've been trying to cut back for the past 2 weeks. i wouldn't really say it was an actual DIET per say, but i guess it is. for breakfast i've been having a bowl of special k & for lunch i've been having a mix of things. usually gram crackers carrots dole peaches apple/apple sauce & yoplay yogurt. i mix those things up each day. i have a bottle of water with it also. for dinner, i try cutting back. i eat whatever my parents make, because i don't want to waste food. so lets say they make steak & potatos. i'll have a small piece of steak and 1 sweet potato. stuff like that. even if they have bbq and fries. ill take the bbq without the roll and a few fries. i've cut out my snacks & have not aten past 7 pm. also, i'm on an ankle injury so i can't play sports. i've been running/walking/jogging about 30 minutes 5 days a week. will this do it!? or will i have to work harder. also, how do i avoid talking about it at lunch. we sit at 1 big table & they always make comments like "oh yeah shes dieting again". it really bothers me because i don't want anyone to talk about it. also-i am a female [obviously] im 5'9 & i weigh around 140. am i being ridiculous?? i just want to lose stomach weight. any help is appreciated.

thanks!!

i no a great diet that i think might work for u and you will be happy, you eat untill ull full but not completly full just when you start slowing down or a lil befor . And do a couple crunches in teh morning .HOPW IT HELPS!

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My friends and i have been friends for 1 year.recently we got mad at each other and we are not talking.I dont know if we should be friends again or not.But here is the thing...everybody is saying that im the one who is ignoring her when she started all this and everybody thinks im the bad person.She calls me everyday but i don talk to her.Any advice?Thanx alot!And how can i make her stop calling me every damn day.

i know the exact feeling,

jsut say to her 1st of all lets end this fight im sry for anything i did and i love u to death u no it to. I really care about you, but calling me has gotta slow down ( then laugh a bit) then say, i do want you to call me of coures but sometimes i want to call you but youyr to busy calling me i cant get to you. ( hug her) love ya Hope you forgive me!

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i like this girland i think she likes me too i always flirt with her and she blushes and smiles at me i havent hung out with her in like 2 years she is in 2 of my classes i sit next to her in both. i went out with her in 7th grade but we broke up b/c i was sort of bored i want to go out with her again but i dont know if shes going to not wat to kiss because i dont think she ever did what should i do

to tell you the truth height means nothing. All that should matter is do you cae about her and lover her? You probley get a grwoth spirt soon. But for now just figure out you feelings. If people talk let them cause your just younge and in love. Theres nothing wrong . i Dated a guy way shorter then me and sti dating lol . Sure in the beging peolpe where talking then find out that how we feel for each other.


ask away just think of your feelings.


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Hi, i'm a girl, 15 years old. So i like my best friend(15/male). I've liked him since I was in 5th grade! (I am now in 10th) He says he kind of likes me, but he doesn't know if he wants to go out with me. We've hooked up before, but I want more than that. how can I let him know that I can't be just friends with him, that I want MORE! i cant wait for him and he needs to know that.
thank you!
-jool

1st of all jiust relax. talk to him face to face and tell him how u fell and theni no it will fell wierd but after he well think about it a lot and might want to give it a chance. just try.





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