|
Abusive
Im a 17 and i have a really abusive brother. How can i deal with him without callin the cops? should i tell my bf and gf or Friends?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
heyy. i have the same promblem but with 3 brothers!!pretty harsh right,
you tell the girlfriend , i awlways do and she calms him down and helps me explain to him how i feel! it works, the freinds wont listen unless its a girl, all girls will help you. trust just tell his gf when ever you get hit and she will be there to help.
[=
]
I don't know if this is a coincidence or if you asked twice, but I will give you the same answer I just gave someone else.
It is not your job or within your power to fix him, but you can help to protect yourself. Stay away from him when you feel any threat of danger. Report his violent actions immediately to your local authorities. No one, not even a love one has a right to hurt you. Would you let a stranger get away with this? It is not in his best interest either to let him off the hook...it will only enable him to continue or worsen his behavior. Have a heart to heart talk with him about his actions and the affect it is having on you and your relationship with him and ask him to get counseling or at least leave you alone. Try to avoid him if he is not cooperative in leaving you alone and getting help for his temper. Do what you can to avoid provoking him in any way. Talk to your family about this problem and make an action plan before something terrible happens. This is a serious problem and not something to ignore.
]
Punch him in the face and put on high heels and stomp his balls while he's sleeping.
]
It doesn't matter what kind of abuse it is abuse is abuse and nobody should have to deal with it.You should deff. tell a parent your best friend sumone u trust.My older sister was being abused while she was pregnant and she waited until the abuse was shown on her arms until she finally said sumthing and then her hurt their baby and finally he was sent to jail. But the main thing is to tell someone even a guidence counselor and their are a bunch of hot-lines u could tlk to..
]
well it depends on abusive type. does he rape you, does he emotionally hurt you, does he physically hurt you? If i was you i would call the authorities. Matter of fact tell someone you trust. If you dont want to call the cops i say you tell your mom or dad, or aunt or uncle, or even a grandma or grandpa. Tell your friends too. Just make sure they are trustworthy. Thats what you want to go for- trust. But if he is raping you or beating you, you need to get some strong force involved.
xoxo
teardrops7
]
its easier to deal with if you talk about it to a close friend and come up with a good solution to deal with it maybe talking to your brother or parents to put him into counsling or something to see what is triggering his anger. hes letting something build up inside of him.
]
More Questions: |