okay. this is weird so ya =) haha anyways, me and this boy have been on and off since the first week of 7th grade and now we are in 10th grade. we were about to go out again but then he was saying he just wanted to do stuff and if i didn't do anything with him then we couldn't go out so i was like okay bye. but now he has a girlfriend. and he was telling me he liked me and he doesn't care for his girlfriend at all and he is using her for sex. so i saved the conversations on AIM of that and then one day she im'd me calling me a bitch and stuff and i told her how he doesn't really like her and showed her the conversation and she still didn't believe me. and in gym class we are doing dancing right now and we told eachother we would be eachother's partner. so we were dancing and like kept touching me everywhere and i was like stop you have a girlfriend and he waslike so she won't find out and i was like just admit it you don't love her he goes so what and then she im'd me again today saying hey bitch so i was like why are you so mean and she was like cause you're a liar i was like no you just chose not to believe me and she was like no i believe my boyfriend over you and i was like well you don't really know him she goes i know him better than u i was like right i've been with him since 7th grade she goes he has changed i was like for the worse now all he does is cheat on his girlfriends. which is true. and she told him i guess and he im'd me any started yelling at me and told me to never talk to him again and i shouldn't be telling her that. was i wrong to tell her??and what should id o!!?!!?!??!!
lilteacup answered Saturday December 8 2007, 10:12 pm: I don't think you were wrong in telling her. She IMs you and calls you a bitch, and you didn't want him to be all over you because of his girlfriend.
You should probably steer clear from both of them and save yourself a lot of drama. Just don't involve yourself in it. I went through a lot of drama over a boy in high school, and it was so messy and it ruined a lot of things. So don't even worry about it. Ignore it. Block her from your buddy list so she won't IM you. Ignore him or even block him so you don't get caught in the middle again.
And I know it is hard to let go of someone that you have been involved with for such a long time. But seriously take your time and think of whether or not this guy is worth involving yourself with, if he were to be single again and were pursuing you. He is willing to cheat on his girlfriend, he lied and he is using a girl for sex, how demeaning is that?
killerface answered Saturday December 8 2007, 10:12 pm: You should stay away from both of them. :] Girls are crazy, and she should've believed you over him, since you had proof, but that's her choice. They're in high school, it's not like they'll last anyway. Plus, she'll probably get what's coming to her. :] You're not the bad guy... err, girl. [ killerface's advice column | Ask killerface A Question ]
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