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crush on BestFriend..felt this way for 5years(im 15/f)
Hi, i'm a girl, 15 years old. So i like my best friend(15/male). I've liked him since I was in 5th grade! (I am now in 10th) He says he kind of likes me, but he doesn't know if he wants to go out with me. We've hooked up before, but I want more than that. how can I let him know that I can't be just friends with him, that I want MORE! i cant wait for him and he needs to know that.
thank you!
-jool
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My advice to you is to talk to him face-to-face, and tell him how you feel (in a calm, and respectful manor). Then, listen to what he says and how he feels. If he feels the same as you, then that's great. If he doesn't, there are much better guys than him and it's his loss.
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1st of all jiust relax. talk to him face to face and tell him how u fell and theni no it will fell wierd but after he well think about it a lot and might want to give it a chance. just try.
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I hated when this happned. But i sooner or later learned that what happans.. happens for a reason. You just need to tell him, and if explaining it to him is to hard to tell him in person thats okay, we all get a little bit shy!, but write him a letter sometimes its much easier that way to express how you really feel. I am that way, its so much better for me to write my thoughts on paper, you have time to think about it, and your not pressured to spill words out right then & there. You can also erase anything u said. But you do need to tell him otherwise one day you may look back regretting that u never did tell him. That wouldnt be good, Just remember this ... "Never regret anything that onces made you S.M.I.L.E"
I hope i helped
-Princess Trixx
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*sigh* i've just gone through that like, two weeks ago. what i did was ask my best friend out. we weren't friends for that long. just about two years. but he said no. he said that at our age (i'm 14/f, btw) friendship lasts longer than relationships. and i do agree with him, but i did feel like we had a strong enough friendship to overcome whatever would've happened between us during or after the relationship. but i guess i wouldn't know anytime soon. anyways. if you think that your friendship could go through whatever might go your way, you should talk to him about it. and/or ask him out. through my experience, even though he said no, it made our friendship stronger and it proved that we could still stay the same way with each other even though i kinda messed it up. so if you think your friendship can stay stable through a relationship, go for it and ask him out. if he says yes, yay for you! if he says no, atleast you still have your friendship. either way, it'll only make your friendship stronger.
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