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My boyfriend and I had sex. I noticed however, the condom was a tad bit to big. I'm almost positive we'll have sex again, but I want him to have a condom that fits right. How should I tell him he needs a smaller condom without making him feel bad about himself, or his.. um.. size ? Also, how do you buy a box of condoms that are the right size ? It's not like you can try them on.. haha =)
Thanks !! (link)
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look on thebox. there is a size chart normally
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ok well so wat happens is that i have this one buddy(hes friends with my bro too) hes well he used to be like my best friend or lik a brother to me right...so one day i go to his house to work on some assingment...his parents leave...we stay by ourselves and he starts kissin me...first i didnt want to b/c i felt weird but later i accepted and we start makin out n then somethin more (anal sex n a blow job) ok ok so it felt weird after that day but i thought it wa lonly once so i was "ok" but the other day we were left by ourselves again and he started kissin me again but i stopped him this time b/c we were in school and someone could have seen us so yup...one day a friend, mi bro and I went to his house so we were watchin a movie and he tells me to go with him b/c hes gonna show me somethin on his computer so i go and again it happened this time ended up havin sex.. this was last friday havent seen him since and I feel like our friendship is fallin apart b/c now he only talks to me when he needs a favor or like to touch me... and i feel really bad b/c i let this happen and now dont know how to stop it...i think he doesnt wanna be my buddy anymore just like frinds with benefits...but it hurts b/c i still see him as my best buddy...wat can I do?? HELP! (link)
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shit i am so in your situation
it may suck,,but u gotta talk to him. seriosuly. and then be like i dont know if i wanna do this, i miss us being friends. also, was he ur first (if he does, im sorry. i lost mine to a friend liek that.)
so yeah hope this helps!
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so theres this guy, lets call him "k"
so k and i have been bffs since elementry/middle school. then we went to diff highschools, hes in brooklyn and i go to school uptown, but last year we kept intouch alot. so we were like "fwb's" last year, but then i decided i wanted more, and he decided he didnt, and we kinda lost touch.
so last night he IMs me out of NO where like "OMG ITS BEEN SO LONG I MISS U" and so we were talking and then hes liek "yo for memorial day weekend my parents are going out of town, u should come over...mad beer"
and i was like "YAY PARTY" and he was like "oh uh actually, i was thinking just me and u..."
and i dont know if i should go or not, cause i dont kno if i really want to hook up with him (obv waht he wants) and im like too fat right now and i dont want him to seeme! ugh please help me!
i dont want him to think its like ok for him to just contact me when he wants ass! but i also do want to hook up with him! (link)
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HELPPP!!!!help!
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Hi, i'm a girl, 15 years old. So i like my best friend(15/male). I've liked him since I was in 5th grade! (I am now in 10th) He says he kind of likes me, but he doesn't know if he wants to go out with me. We've hooked up before, but I want more than that. how can I let him know that I can't be just friends with him, that I want MORE! i cant wait for him and he needs to know that.
thank you!
-jool (link)
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Ok my mother is forcing me to go for a medicals check up cause i havent had one in like years and for some reason she thinks i could have diebeties cause she sees me eating too many sweets (rolls eyes) i know its rediculose but now im freaking out cause i just relized there gonna check my urine, blood, ect.. and... im just wondering if they can see that i have marijuana in my system. I dont smoke it all the time just once in a while last time was like friday nov 17 my check up is on tuesday can find anything if there not looking for it? help anyone who knows cause if they can im just gonna stale untill maybe another month if i can
any advice will be greatly appreciated
Thanks!
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if the last time u smoked was friday, u should be ok
-jool
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Ok I heard of sayings like "bite me" and "I got laid" and "Someone got stoned" but I heard different meanings from different people about them and it just makes it confusing. So will anyone tell me what they ACTUALLY and REALLY mean??? (link)
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"bite me" is just another way to tell someone to F*** off
"getting laid" just means having sex
and "getting stoned" is just getting high, normally from pot
-jool
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I use to always get A's! Now i keep getting very grades on test even though i study. My friends don't even study and they get great grades! How can I improve my grade? (link)
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talk to your teacher. see if u can set upa time w/ them to go over howu can imrove
-jool
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Well over this past summer, i walked in a lot on my dad watching porn and using a webcam.. wouldnt a webcam be considered cheeting for the most part? Anyways, he's always at work, and he's always at meetings. After i had accidently wakled in on him this summer and gone through the thoughts of omg he might be cheeting on my mom what do i do, he completely changed for awhile. He acted soooooooo soo weird, it was scary. I could honestly say i didnt feel safe around him and i felt like he was hiding something. Well anyways, my mom works nights.. and like 97% of the time those are the nights my dad has outta town meetings. Every year he has a work christmas party and usually the spouses and sometimes family go too..this year it was just the workers. So he gets home last night from it at 3am, drunk as helll... and this morning, hes acted so weird. im scared, i just dont know what to believe and what not to believe. what should i do... (link)
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you need to havea convo w/ your dad. then, if itfeels right, talk 2 ur mom!
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i think im asking for too much for christmas. im not sure if all the gifts im getting are neccesery. hes my list of gifts that my parents are buying and tell me if im asking for way too much.
1. new digital camera $200-$250
2. ipod nano $150-$200
3.psp $200
4. psp games about $40 each
5. abercrombie clothes $105
6. stuff from bath and body works $15
7. movies $40
and more that i forgot. honestly, is that too much for my parents to buy? i dont wanna seem like a spoiled brat. my parents are wealthy - they wont have trouble affording it but i dont know. (link)
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why dont u ask them to donattet to a goodcause, like helping with the genocide in darfur.
i have rich parents too, and if you give to others, then hell, i say w/e you want is ok
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ok so i need 2 get gifts for like 10-15 ppl (half girls/half guys). there all 13. i want it to b rele thutful, and feel like each one is personalized, but i dont have a huge amount of money!
any ideas?
thnx! (link)
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the holidays are the PERFECT time to put your talents to use. are u a painter? why not paint each a picture. musician? write someone a song. make them all individualized mixed cds with songs that remind you of them. and make them all cards.
-jool
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ok sorry in advance if this takes a while...
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ok so i was best friend with this girl all thru 7th grade (now im in 8th)...like really really close. long story short, we spent a little 2 much time together over the summer, started getting in a lot of fites, and basicly 1 day she decided she didnt want to be as close ne more. we never stopped completely being friends cause A. we go to the same camp and skool and B. we are in the same "group" of friends. obviously, we got in a big fite about it at first, and some aftershocks for the next month or so, but after a while we calmed down into like just ok-friends mode. well a few weeks ago she told me she missed me and i told her i missd her 2 so now we stuck on the label "best friends" for a few days. but it felt like it was just a label cuz nuthin rele changed so we kinda demoted ourselves bak down. now lately, neither of us has said n e thing, and maybe im just over-reacting, but it feels like we mite b getting closer. we (plus her boyfriend and another of her close friends) went to the movies yesterday, and today i called her and we talked about nuthin for the first time in gosh knows how long. i mean it was only for like 10 minutes, and it was a little strained at times, but it still happened.
now i really miss her, and have for the past few weeks. i dont want to like talk to her about it (as u can see our relationship is complicated enough as it is) so what do i do?
any help appreciated! thanks! (link)
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i went through this my freshman year. i met this girl, we'll call her L. L and I did everything together. then, she started hanging out with other people, slowly forgetting about me. it hurt so much, but later on in the school year we talked about it. we still arn't as close as we were, soemtimes in a friendship you have to expierience the extreme best friendness and then the lowest not speaking faze, until you find where your most conftorble. i hope i could help
-jool
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I dont know what to do anymore. My face is bothering me SO much. I can't have proactive anymore. I've tried every product. I have had the same acne for months.. I dunno.. for a year or longer. It's just not going away. What can I do?
It's killing my confidence. It's like I'm the only one with acne at school. I can tell who's wearing coverup since I had to wear makeup for years for my acne. I can't keep my head up because people just stare. And i dont know.
It looks like i have a lot of acne.. but it seems like it's all scars and cysts.
I dont know what products to try because most just make my skin WORSE.
If I go to a derm.. could they really help me?
I've already tried the medicated creams.
My face just looks rough and red.. just gross.
I always wanted smooth skin but I guess I won't get it.
Don't tell me to wash my face because I already do. I don't over wash my face or anything. Just once or twice a day. I'm not rough with my skin either.
Somebody suggested Birth Control but I heard that can make acne lots worse. Is that true? (link)
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i have two friends who went one birth controll for acne (one is a guy, ones a girl) and it has worked well for both of them. but DEFINITLY go to a dermatologist before u go on hormones, because there could be another way that only a professional can help you with.
i hope that was helpful!
-jool
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Hi, i'm a girl, 15 years old. So i like my best friend(15/male). I've liked him since I was in 5th grade! (I am now in 10th) He says he kind of likes me, but he doesn't know if he wants to go out with me. We've hooked up before, but I want more than that. how can I let him know that I can't be just friends with him, that I want MORE!
thank you!
-jool (link)
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please someone help
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ok. so i bought black leggings to wear with my jean skirt. but i just dont know what to wear with them.
right now i have 2 choices.
choice 1.
black flats
black leggings
dark jean skirt
dark grey long sleeve shirt w/ white and greyish flowers on it
OR
choice 2
black flats
black leggings
dark jean skirt
light purple wife beater tank top
black jacket that has blue and purple on it
which one sounds better? tried them both on and i cant decide (link)
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nix the skirt
the skirt is soo suburbanish last year middleschool crying for attention
just wear the leggings
its a MUCH betterlook
pair the leggings with the black flats and a long shirt or a short dress.
-jool
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