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friend or not??
ok well so wat happens is that i have this one buddy(hes friends with my bro too) hes well he used to be like my best friend or lik a brother to me right...so one day i go to his house to work on some assingment...his parents leave...we stay by ourselves and he starts kissin me...first i didnt want to b/c i felt weird but later i accepted and we start makin out n then somethin more (anal sex n a blow job) ok ok so it felt weird after that day but i thought it wa lonly once so i was "ok" but the other day we were left by ourselves again and he started kissin me again but i stopped him this time b/c we were in school and someone could have seen us so yup...one day a friend, mi bro and I went to his house so we were watchin a movie and he tells me to go with him b/c hes gonna show me somethin on his computer so i go and again it happened this time ended up havin sex.. this was last friday havent seen him since and I feel like our friendship is fallin apart b/c now he only talks to me when he needs a favor or like to touch me... and i feel really bad b/c i let this happen and now dont know how to stop it...i think he doesnt wanna be my buddy anymore just like frinds with benefits...but it hurts b/c i still see him as my best buddy...wat can I do?? HELP!
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i think that maybe he has just started fancying you; sometimes you think your friends with someone and it turns out they only started being friends with you because they fancied you. This happens a lot; either accept the change, and either go out with him, or just be a fun buddy, or stop it; stop it happening by not being on your own with him; and when he tries it, talk to him about it.
charming ashlie
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shit i am so in your situation
it may suck,,but u gotta talk to him. seriosuly. and then be like i dont know if i wanna do this, i miss us being friends. also, was he ur first (if he does, im sorry. i lost mine to a friend liek that.)
so yeah hope this helps!
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