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condom size


Question Posted Wednesday May 23 2007, 5:45 pm

My boyfriend and I had sex. I noticed however, the condom was a tad bit to big. I'm almost positive we'll have sex again, but I want him to have a condom that fits right. How should I tell him he needs a smaller condom without making him feel bad about himself, or his.. um.. size ? Also, how do you buy a box of condoms that are the right size ? It's not like you can try them on.. haha =)

Thanks !!

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sugarplum07 answered Friday May 25 2007, 9:00 am:
Everyone else had great answers, but I just wanted to add that all condoms have extra room at the head for the seeman. If the condom was too big on him, it would literally fall off of him. Don't worry if there's a little extra room at the head if that's all it is.

If he gets insecure about his size, all you have to do is remind him it doesn't matter because he makes you feel great. Just compliment him and comfort him and he'll feel better about it.

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Ashumms answered Thursday May 24 2007, 9:50 pm:
There is a size chart on the back of the box.

Check to see what size he bought, then go buy a box of the same brand, but one size smaller.

You can either carry them with you and just say you've got this one the next time you have sex, or you can open the box and switch it with the one he has. He probably won't even notice the difference.

The next time you need to buy condoms, go with him to make sure he gets the right size.

Truthfully, he may not have even checked the size chart. He may have just picked up a box and figured they were probably all the same.

But if the subject of the size does come up and he feels insecure, tell him that it doesn't matter how big he is because he knows how to please you.

The fact is, if he doesn't wear the right size condom, the risk of you getting pregnant is ultimately higher. Tell him to think about that the next time he insists that he 'needs' the bigger size.

Hope this helps!

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charmed3fanatic answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 9:37 pm:
you should go out and buy a box yourself and suprize him and tell him you want to try out the new ones he'll never know ;]

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orphans answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 9:33 pm:
get the exact same condom brand he used and just buy him the smaller size and be like oops my b

all brands have diferent sizing like trojans (i think) are labeled smaller so that the guy feels a little bit better.

so whatever brand he used, ypu shoud just buy the smaller size

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jool answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 9:23 pm:
look on thebox. there is a size chart normally

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