My boyfriend and I had sex. I noticed however, the condom was a tad bit to big. I'm almost positive we'll have sex again, but I want him to have a condom that fits right. How should I tell him he needs a smaller condom without making him feel bad about himself, or his.. um.. size ? Also, how do you buy a box of condoms that are the right size ? It's not like you can try them on.. haha =)
If he gets insecure about his size, all you have to do is remind him it doesn't matter because he makes you feel great. Just compliment him and comfort him and he'll feel better about it. [ sugarplum07's advice column | Ask sugarplum07 A Question ]
Ashumms answered Thursday May 24 2007, 9:50 pm: There is a size chart on the back of the box.
Check to see what size he bought, then go buy a box of the same brand, but one size smaller.
You can either carry them with you and just say you've got this one the next time you have sex, or you can open the box and switch it with the one he has. He probably won't even notice the difference.
The next time you need to buy condoms, go with him to make sure he gets the right size.
Truthfully, he may not have even checked the size chart. He may have just picked up a box and figured they were probably all the same.
But if the subject of the size does come up and he feels insecure, tell him that it doesn't matter how big he is because he knows how to please you.
The fact is, if he doesn't wear the right size condom, the risk of you getting pregnant is ultimately higher. Tell him to think about that the next time he insists that he 'needs' the bigger size.
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