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a little inexperienced.
the only time i've been involved in stuff with guys was once when i got fingered. and he wasnt very nice and i've been avoiding this stuff.
but the guy i've really liked, and dated on and off for 10 months wants me to sleep with him. and for once im not nervous. so i want to ..
but i have NO idea what im doing. i know the general gist of it, but like what do i do if im just the girl taht like sits there and gets nothing from it, or what if its no good for him .. i need a little guidance cause i don't know anything about sex. i've never had it or anything.
what's your first time like .. bad? scarey, totally unpleasurable ..
help please!!!
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You won't know everything ther is to know about sex till your 30. And thats the truth! If you've been dating ON AND OFF, i'd kinda like to understand why the off part has been happening and if this guy deserves your virginity. Once he's taken it he cant give it back.
Talk to him about it. It feels weird to talk about that kinda stuff but you need to take the leap and do it. The first guy who fingered you probably had NO idea what he was doing!
Missionary is the best for starters. Just lay back spread your legs and tell him to go slow. Make sure you bend your knees and dont lay there like a stunned mullet. It will hurt! Kiss him and rub his back, i like to grab my b/f's bum cheeks cos they're nice ;-)
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Okay, I could try to explain everything, but the truth is that it is different for everyone.
Try going to this site, it explains everything in great detail, from emotions, to the physical.
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firstly, i would start off with fingering and other sexual acts before moving onto sexual intercourse; this is where you will gain the most pleasure probably, and its an important stage, it helps you realise what each of you like, and that can be applied to sex.
my first time was ok; i wasnt scared, and we had been doing other stuff for two months at that point, so i was comfortable. the best "first time" was with my second proper boyfriend, also my current.
it doesnt matter if you dont know everything your first time' thats what keeps you practising!!
charming ashlie xx
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