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Well over this past summer, i walked in a lot on my dad watching porn and using a webcam.. wouldnt a webcam be considered cheeting for the most part? Anyways, he's always at work, and he's always at meetings. After i had accidently wakled in on him this summer and gone through the thoughts of omg he might be cheeting on my mom what do i do, he completely changed for awhile. He acted soooooooo soo weird, it was scary. I could honestly say i didnt feel safe around him and i felt like he was hiding something. Well anyways, my mom works nights.. and like 97% of the time those are the nights my dad has outta town meetings. Every year he has a work christmas party and usually the spouses and sometimes family go too..this year it was just the workers. So he gets home last night from it at 3am, drunk as helll... and this morning, hes acted so weird. im scared, i just dont know what to believe and what not to believe. what should i do...
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If you have a good relationship with your mom, tell her. Focus mainly on how it makes you FEEL and how your Dad's actions are creeping you out. Those are the most important issues here, that you feel insecure around your dad.
Also make sure you have a backup, some other adult you can go to for help, like a guidance counselor or a teacher. If this is causing you emotional distress, then you need to discuss it with somebody. I recommend not going to your dad right now because he has already made you insecure enough to feel 'weirded out'. Talk to him WITH your mom or another adult.
I wish you good luck sweetie.
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i've walked in on my dad watching porn, and it makes me feel nasty inside and if i go near him, he'll touch me or something. ecspecially because it was all teen porn and i'm a teen. but i know he would never touch me/rape me. i've confronted him and he freaks out, but at least he tries to hide it.
the fact that your dad is using a webcam for porn is not normal, ecspecially because he's a dad and he does it when your in the house..
you really need to tell your mom about this, tell her EVERYTHING, even if it hurts. if i were you, i would totally assume he's cheating, and if your dad is always at meetings and at work when he could be spending time with his daughter, i really think he's cheating.
-when he's gone, you should snoop around, even though its wrong. try to find tapes on the webcam even though it may be nasty, show them to your mom, and also look on his computer for porn, you should also look through his draws and cabinets he uses for his personal things. who knows what you'll find.
getting home 3 am drunk on a school night?? there is definetly something going on.
sweety, you will totally be in my prayers tonight, and hearing this really upsets me.
it upsets me when i find out porn things my father does, and i can't imagine how you feel. if i were you, i'd stay away from my father if he still does his stuff after you confront him, and i hope i helped.
good luck, and god bless
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you need to havea convo w/ your dad. then, if itfeels right, talk 2 ur mom!
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