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how do I hook up without messing up. i'm hanging with this guy his weekend and i think were going to.. Ive heard people in my grade msissed there lips and kissed there chin. how do you land on there lips if ur eyes are closed. how dou breath and how do u no how to get your tounge in there and move it around!!!!!!! AH HELP
101 to kissing.
1. RELAX! RELAX! RELAX!
the worst thing you can do with a first kiss, is get nervous and scared and miss, and kiss the chin. just stay calm and breathe, act flirtatious, and cute, it will attract him more to make the first move.
2. the old 90 10.
you might have heard of it. but it doesn't always have to be like that [its when you move in 10 degrees & he moves in 90]. just lean in real close to him, and let him know that your up for it. even do the whole "butterfly kiss" thing, to flirt a little.
3. dont force anything anywhere {tounge}.
let him do it, but if he doesn't hes probly just nervous, so just do it slow, and steady. and just relax. be polite, dont tell him he sucks, or anything. just have fun, after all, this is your first kiss. make it memerable. :]
hope i helped. relax girlie. have fun.
so i like this guy..but i hardly get to see him. he used to have feelings for me awhile ago, and he asked me out. but i said no to him because i liked some other kid who was an ass hole.
i havn't really hung out with this guy before since the homecoming football game back in september (before, we only talked online). and now that i know him better, i realllly like him.
i asked his best friend (and one of my best guyfriends) if he knew that if he liked me. his best friend said that he wasn't sure but he said that if i asked him out, the guy would probably say yes (this was back in November). i guess his friend started talking about me more around him, and asked him if he liked me. he said he liked me back.
whenever we do see eachother, we talk soo much. he's wicked easy to talk too. i'm not sure if he really does like me though..or still likes me for that matter. i want to tell him i have feelings for him, but i don't want to say it and have it be so random and akward if it turns out he likes me back. do i just say the basic "i think i have feelings for you." and walk away or what?
please help me. i'm not sure if i completly made sense but, any advice would be helpful :)
thank you.
go for it girl! taking chances will get you farther than being shy. I used to be afraid to tell a guy what i felt for him. then one day, i just decided that i should tell him that i liked him, and what do you know we've been dating for a year now. & if he doesnt like you back, then as hard as it is to hear, it wasn't ment to be.
hope i helped :]]
I think that i am fat. my mom does to. she calls me fat all of the time, and now my sister does. honestly i hate myself and the way that i am. ive always wanted to be an actress or a singer, but my mom told me that i wont make it because i am way to fat. she tells me that i will never get a boyfriend if i am this big. i way less than 160 and am about 5'4". i kno that i am huge, but i cant lose the weight. i used to cut myself becuase of how terrible i am, and now i am giving up at life all together. if i have to be fat all of my life, than i dont want to live at all. please help. if you can give me ways to lose the wait. i thinking of suicide, and am only thirteen. my family and all guys hate me. i need help and fast.
thanx for listening..........
body image is about the hardest thing to cope with out there. in my past i've struggled w/ coping with my body in the complete opposite way & revisted my friend "MIA". it wasn't a good time in my life, and i'm not proud. A lot of people around me would joke about me being fat, when really i was completly under weight. that was about 8 months ago, and now, I'm completely healed. It took me a while to be comfortable with my body again, and love what God gave me. It was also hard because at my worst point, i chose to break the news to my boyfriend, who dumped me, and it was alot of stress. Suicide, eating disorders, drugs. its all bad. It may sound like the best solution, because trust me i know it does. but when you look back you see that the people who truly love and care about you will not judge you & say mean things to you. Try confronting your mom & sister. Tell them that you really don't appriciate the put-downs, and as hard as it might be, tell them what your thinking. I told my mom, and she helped me cope, and luckly i never had to go to a doctor or counsler. Moms are supposed to be there for you. But if she continues, remember she IS verbaly ABUSING you. & honey, thats NOT okay. Seek help.
God Bless, & hope i helped.
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i hate to sound like a broken record...
but it doesn't really sound like this guy likes you more than a friend. but if you really like him, then try to get to know him better. but don't change yourself to someone that hes dated before or had a fling with. be your self. chances are that hes wanting to try a new girl because he's sick of the old one, not a copie of the ex. stay true to what you feel & i know this advice sounds harsh & makes your stomach skwirm, but hey boys feelings change constantly.
its also good that your involved in something together. :]
what do you find atractive.. because im having som troulbes in the ladies department
i love the smart guys. keep a good gpa, be active, and fit. a guy thats taller and has more muscle than me makes me feel very confident, and comforted. that if we were to get in a bad situation, he could pretect me. be unique. i love when a guy has his own ways of doing things, like most people take you to a movie & dinner on a first date, take her rock climbing or something that she normally wouldn't do. don't EVER tell a girl shes hott. i find it very offencive actually. when my bf told me that i was beautiful it melted my heart. :] act mysterious, make her want to know more about you. and send her flowers when you miss her, but don't ever call her more than like 2 tiems a night, sometimes, you just get anoying. :] lol. always smile, and dont' lead anyone on, and once you do settle down, don't flirt with other girls unless you plan on loosing the one you have. most girls want to know that they're the only girl you see.
good luck, but don't change yourself for a girl she likes you for who you are :]
ok so i was getting to know this kid named sam right yeh he broke up with girl friend a while ago and his ex was just macking on my best friend victor so then me and sam get to know each other for about like give or like take a like month so then like we should text each other saying i love you and all thats lovey dovey shit so then i find out that he leds me on for like two weeks and not only does his ex like hate me but he is now hokking back up with tahts tupid slut only because she fucked him and doesnt want him macking on other girls but she can mack on other guys UGHHHHHHH I FUCKIN HATE HER AND I REALLY LIKES HIM BUT HE IS SUCH A SICK PUPPY so like i met this guy named derik to and like were friends and all but ughhh i dont know what to do with sam that stupid fagg HELP PLEASEEE
honey boys will be boys and they will break your heart over and over and over again. but if this guy is hurting you like this and causing you to be this angry, let him go, you deserve better, and for the slut, oh man most girls who do stuff just so their ex's will stay with them are so low, they will just get all of the icky guys, so you don't need a boy thats been with an icky girl, so just tell him that your un interested and that he should just go lay some stupid slut, and to leave you alone. be strong. don't hate.
How do you know if a guy truely loves you when they say they do? If he stares at you for a while and says that he loves you does that mean he truely loves you i just need to kno how do you know when a guy really loves a girl..
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ugh doesn't everyone hate that? its like something you can't live with and can't live without. but if you really think that he would tell you the truth then just ask him. how do you feel about me. or if you really wanted to test him, ask him infront of a friend of his. if he really truley loves you and knows your worth any crap he'd get from his friends, he would most def. tell you that he loves you in front of them. but if he doesn't don't worry, most people don't find true LOVE until there're older, like college and mid-20's. & the thing is you might think your in love but its hard because no body is REALLY in love until they are ready. but its not a "maybe" thing. you either are or your not. you dicide your decision. just don't fall for someone whos not in love with you back....that just leads to heart break. :]
There is this boy
and i like him alot
but just recently something bad happened[long story]
which caused him to hate me and my friend
my friend talked to him about it and he was nice and calm about it and he said he wouldnt hate us forver
but i was to scared to talk to him so i didnt, so i messaged him saying sorry and all that good stuff
do you think that was the right thing to do?
and do you think he will respond or just ignore it?
im so scared, i cant stop thinking about it but i know he wont get it until tommorow!
please help
and by the way i like the boy alot if that helps
well to start off. stop talking to him on the computer and through friends. if you really like this boy you really need to talk to him in person. face to face. that way you will grow & maybe this boy will grow to like you...
second, boys are so so soooo hard to understand sometimes. they can be really shy, like you, and act cocky, so they pretend not to like you at all. thats tough. because then you just never know what their thinking, who they like or what you should even do.
my advice? appologize face to face;; don't write him a letter, call him, IM him, or message him. tell him to his face at school or w.e. so that he knows that you really mean it. tell him that whatever you did was wrong and stupid of you & that you hope he forgives you. if hes a guy thats worth it, he won't hold a grudge against you. he will forgive you or move on. & if he doesnt well than you need to move on..easier said than done i know but as time moves on it will come. these types of things can be hard but just remember your friends are always more reliable than whats-his-face:]
good luck:]