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ScARED! There is this boy
and i like him alot
but just recently something bad happened[long story]
which caused him to hate me and my friend
my friend talked to him about it and he was nice and calm about it and he said he wouldnt hate us forver
but i was to scared to talk to him so i didnt, so i messaged him saying sorry and all that good stuff
do you think that was the right thing to do?
and do you think he will respond or just ignore it?
im so scared, i cant stop thinking about it but i know he wont get it until tommorow!
please help
and by the way i like the boy alot if that helps
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well to start off. stop talking to him on the computer and through friends. if you really like this boy you really need to talk to him in person. face to face. that way you will grow & maybe this boy will grow to like you...
second, boys are so so soooo hard to understand sometimes. they can be really shy, like you, and act cocky, so they pretend not to like you at all. thats tough. because then you just never know what their thinking, who they like or what you should even do.
my advice? appologize face to face;; don't write him a letter, call him, IM him, or message him. tell him to his face at school or w.e. so that he knows that you really mean it. tell him that whatever you did was wrong and stupid of you & that you hope he forgives you. if hes a guy thats worth it, he won't hold a grudge against you. he will forgive you or move on. & if he doesnt well than you need to move on..easier said than done i know but as time moves on it will come. these types of things can be hard but just remember your friends are always more reliable than whats-his-face:]
good luck:] ]
What the heck did you do? Details would help me advise you better. It is good you apologised of course, and I would do it in person as well. Also, if it is possible to make amends to undo any damage you did, then you have to take responsibility for that, too. Saying sorry is just the beginning, you need to make it up to him somehow if he lets you. ]
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