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what is the most atractive
what do you find atractive.. because im having som troulbes in the ladies department
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Sense of humor.
If a guy isn't funny, then we WON'T get along. [:
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i love the smart guys. keep a good gpa, be active, and fit. a guy thats taller and has more muscle than me makes me feel very confident, and comforted. that if we were to get in a bad situation, he could pretect me. be unique. i love when a guy has his own ways of doing things, like most people take you to a movie & dinner on a first date, take her rock climbing or something that she normally wouldn't do. don't EVER tell a girl shes hott. i find it very offencive actually. when my bf told me that i was beautiful it melted my heart. :] act mysterious, make her want to know more about you. and send her flowers when you miss her, but don't ever call her more than like 2 tiems a night, sometimes, you just get anoying. :] lol. always smile, and dont' lead anyone on, and once you do settle down, don't flirt with other girls unless you plan on loosing the one you have. most girls want to know that they're the only girl you see.
good luck, but don't change yourself for a girl she likes you for who you are :]
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Attractive is basic
shes has a beauty or a charm
Her personality
the way she acts
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Attraction and looks are in two separate departments, and both are subjective and vary from individual. One can be good-looking, without being attractive and vice-versa. Attraction involves many dynamics of character traits, subconscious feelings, senses of smell, psychological needs and mental perceptions, our past, our present emotional state, and so much more! A girl can date a hundred model type guys and not be as attracted to them as she would be to an average looking guy, who seems to have an invisible pull on her. Love and attraction are more mysterious and complex than you think. However, some general specifics for being attractive are:
Self-confidence.
Responsibility.
A sense of humor.
Creativity.
Acceptance of their partner as an imperfect human.
Strong personal interests.
Spirituality.
Stablity.
Sensitivity.
A sense of style and cleanliness.
A desire to explore the world and learn new ideas.
Health (no STD's)
These should get you started, but remember that you never know which girl is interested, so don't discount yourself, and girls love a little obvious attention and your willingness to compete for them. That is sexy!
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Manners, much facial hair and a firm hand shake is what it takes to spark my interest. Beyond that, I like to surround myself with good, frequent conversation, an all around sense of humor, and someone who views themselves respectfully and strives to be a better person with each and every passing day. :)
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Wish I could help but everyone who answers this question is going to have different things that they are into than the people that you are around or friends with. Some girls like long hair, others short. Some like punk ish, some like prep. Its all different and depends on the girl. Just be yourself and someone will come along and like you for that. The worst thing that you can do is change yourself so that someone else will like you, because when their gone, youre stuck with a person that you dont even know, because its not YOU. Best advice: Dont change yourself.
But some things that I'm into are piercings, tattoo's, spikey hair, colored hair, big pants, hoodies, rebel guys.. things like that. I like the whole punk image. But every girl is different!
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