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ugh,just friends?
so. my friend just got this new bf. and hes amazing, we were chillin one day and i met his friend,at that moment i knew i had to have him.not only is he amazingly gorgeous but hes sweet anf funny and i just cant describe it. he comes from a rough-ish homelife and hes still amazing i see through his "tough guy" act i see him for what he is for who he is. BUT of course he doesnt even think of me in that way, not even close, hes like in love with this other girl and it tears me apart, i reeeeeeeeeeeeeally like him but im cluless as to what im supposed to do, how do i win his heart???????
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well the only thing you can really do is just keep beign yourself..and keep the connection between you to..if you cant have him..become really close friends..and maybe in the long run it could happen sometime =]]
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Honestly, you can't win a heart...I learned that and it hurts to know but you have to leave some of this to fate...I know how badly it hurts but if he doesn't like you, you can't make him...be friendly and definatley yourself...be a really good friend and if things end with the other girl he will have somebody to talk to about it...knowing that he can trust you is a really good start. But untill then I'm sorry for the heartache.
XOXO
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...oh, that changes things, thank goodness! Now that I've had my coffee, I can tell you that you always have a chancee and that as long as he is not "with" this other girl, you should definately go for it. You are pretty fortunate in the situation, because your friend can set you up with him by the four of you going out as friends. Casual double-dates could turn into more. He does not know you enough yet, so give him the chance and make a good impression. He may be hot for another right now...but that does not mean you can't be in the running.
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How would you feel if your friend tried to take your new boyfriend away? You honestly cannot do anything about it except wait and see if they last.
I know that it will be hard if they become a solid item, but he is not your boyfriend and it would be very selfish of you to try to take him from her. If you did succeed in winning him away, the victory would be soured by losing the friendship you have with your friend.
If, and only if, they do not make a success of their relationship could you ask her if she would mind your asking him out.
Please think hard about any decision you may make, but I wish you well.
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