Hey.
I am Mimi.
I am a 14 year old but I have been through a lot for somebody my age.
I am a very honest and passionate person and I understand things that people are going through.
I love to give people advice.
I am a big dreamer and a performer.
I really love anybody and it's almost impossible for me to hate.
I am a really loud and fun person but quiet and a deep thinker at the same time.
My heart is really big.
I am committed and do as much as I cn to help.
I love a long story.
Love stories are the best.
I am a hopeless romantic.
Gender: Female
Location: Bradenton, Fl
Age: 14
AIM: xrebelxxkittenx
Member Since: October 16, 2006
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Does anyone have any tips on how to stop cutting? (link)
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I stopped cutting.
It was hard.
You have to tell yourself that it's wrong and pointless. You have to punish yourself if you do it again (no dessert etc).
And most importantly you have to have support.
I know it sounds corny and cliche but it's very true.
XOXO
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Recently, i just got another boyfriend. Everything is great, he's nice, he's good-looking... but theres one problem about me that keeps getting me dumped!
Theres nothing to say!! Like say for instance, i see him at school or in class. We start off great:
Me:Hey
Him:Hey
Me:So how are you?
Him: Good, yourself?
Me: Im good too.
Him:Thats good.
Me:So... what are you doing this weekend?
Him: Nothing, you?
Me: Same...
And thats what happens all the time. I run out of things to say, and he get bored!
WHAT DO I DO?! I NEED URGENT HELP, FAST! (link)
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Yeah...that used to happen to me.
Okay so you can tell him that things are ackward and ask him how it could change.
Or the other thing is to ask him how is day is and when he asks how yours is say good or whatever and tell him why.
Ask him questions.
XOXO
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I am performing at a celebration evening. We have been asked to write and perform a play that is either hilarious or contains a strong message. We did hilarious last celebration evening.
So i need a play that contains a strong message. we were thinking bullying which results to suicide, or following the 'it' crowd and see wheere you get in ten years.
Any advice welcome! we need plot story line ? characters even ?
thanks,
S (link)
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I really like the "IT" crowd thing.
Like...show a girl in highschool that ends up in the "IN" crowd and show her at the highschool reunion in a not so great life where her mom like died or something and she is depressed because nobody held her hand through it.
Then go back and do it again but she finds some amazing friends that help her out through like...the death of her mom or something and she ends up a happy successful person.
Just a suggestion...you don't have to like it lol.
XOXO
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What is the best way to ask a guy that you REALLY like out? I'm really nervous about him saying no and ruining our friendship. I'm also a lil scared that he'll go telling all his buds and then say no. I've never had a bf and i've never asked a boy out...Should i get one of my friends to ask him if he likes me or if he would ever consider me as a gf or more than just a friend??? We like to talk to each other and stuff like that. And everytime someone mentions that he might like me or he does like me he usualy smiles and turns real red. sooo idk how to ask him out!!! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Well...just talk to him casually and be like..."So I think you're a really great guy." wait for his reply and if he just says like "Thanks" I wouldn't take it any further. But, If he's like "Well, you're a great girl." or something jump onto the opprotunity.
Remember that you never know unless you try.
Break a leg
XOXO
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here lately i have gotten into cutting myself. bad. i mean i dont go deep or anything. i just pretty much break the skin. but its gotten bad. like its all i think about. i started saturday and i was like i wont do it anymore. well i did it again last night and then 3 times today. how can i stop? ive told 2 of my friends and they tell me i need to stop, which i know. but its hard. help me? please dont tell me to get counseling, cuz i cant tell my dad and i cant go. (link)
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Okay...so I used to cut too...for 3 years and it really is an addiction.
I was working so hard on stopping and it was really difficult but I have an amazing best friend who helped me every step of the way.
When I was so close to stopping my parents found out...them knowing doesn't help you stop trust me...
I know there are groups you can go to where they can't tell your parents if you don't want them to but...just...if you want to stop truly it takes a lot of work and self discipline. Blast music and sing as loudly as you can if you get uber upset. Trust me it helps.
You don't want to end up like me with over 77 scars on your arm...trust me.
XOXO
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i just got out of a bad relationship with my ex. and i met this amazing guy. hes really sweet. but come to find out, his sister is my best friend. and i wonder what our friendship would be like if her brother (elliot) and i were together. i dont want to lose our friendship or have it be ackward. any ideas? (link)
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If she is a real best friend she will accept the relationship.
If not it's her loss.
I know my best friend would let me date her brother if I wanted to (Ew) lol but...it wouldn't mess up REAL friendship.
Talk to her about it...be like "Hey so...I really like your brother and if anything were to happen with us would you be okay with it?"
If she says "Yeah" you know that you have a great friend.
If not you get to make the choice. It'll be hard but that's part of life.
XOXO
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Well I always hear 'Your so lucky your so skinny!' but then five minutes later I hear that someone is saying Im too skinny behind back or someone will ask me if Im anorexic to my face.
I dont have an eating disorder but somedays, like today, I dont eat anything all day cause Im not hungry and its 9 at night right now.
When I do eat I can basically eat whatever I want cause I dont gain anything.
Heres usually what I eat on a normal day like during the week for school.
Breakfast- usually nothing. sometimes a piece of toast.
Lunch- usually nothing unless I buy lunch, Ill eat about half of what they give me.
Dinner- my parents make dinner usually so I eat a meal for dinner or they get mad.
13/f 5'5"-6"ish. around 100 pounds.
THANKS for reading this and thanks for the help.
PS: when I dont eat for the day my hands shake really bad, is it because no food? (link)
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I have the same eating habits. I'm just not a hungry person.
Some people really are just naturally skinny.
Your hands shake because you get no blood sugar.
It's called hypoglycemia (sp?????) or something.
Just eat a bit more or you won't be healthy.
About the people:
They can go fall in a hole lol.
XOXO
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heyyy well i can tell you right now that i don't really have big problems. other than those normal teenage problems with school, but I guess that maybe it is beneficial to ask here, because I might get back some useful advice. I really feel super sad, and I don't know why. Sometimes at night before going to bed I just cry and have no idea why, so lately I've been feeling this way. I thought it may be PMS or something, however its not because I'm not PMSing. So, there must be something bothering me? am i depressed? because I may get anxiety, but this feeling is painful and I just don't know what there is to do! advice me please n ty (link)
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You should see a professional about it.
It might be depression and there is medication for it.
It hurts doesn't it? Not being able to be happy.
If you want it to end see a counselor, or if you think it's really serious a psychiatrist or psychologist.
Once you talk to somebody about it you will already feel so much better.
Just please don't do anything stupid, it doesn't help at all.
XOXO
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16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating. (link)
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Wow.
That's tough.
It really isn't fun being depressed.
But self-pity is the worst antidote.
The important thing to do is remain optimistic.
Don't get me wrong...I used to cut and when things got to a climax I met somebody who helped me incredibly.
Remeber that no one is perfect..even when you are best friends...lower your standards a little...not too much...and open up to the world and you will realize how amazing life is and love it just as much as I do now.
You never know who you might be hurting when you commit suicide.
XOXO
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Ok so a lot of people tell me i am too thin. I've done those online calculators and they say i am, but you can't really trust those things because they don't take in to consideration a lot of important factors, you know. So, I thought if people could look at my pic site and give me their honest opinion? Thanks. http://www.picturetrail.com/photos/blondina75 (link)
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Ohmigosh!
Not to be like...rude or anything but you are uber small.
Like...there is no way that you are healthy.
Please see somebody about it.
Aren't your parents worried?
I hope everything is okay with you.
XOXO
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A big HUGE thing I hate like crazy is when people go digging for compliments. I find it kind of pathetic, but in my home I am constantly torn apart and picked at for every little thing. Always told I'm not pretty or not smart and that I'm a terrible person and noones ever going to want to marry me. (Theres alot more I just dont wanna say it all.) Well because of this I have been losing more and more confidence and I've been tending to go digging for compliments. I mean I always get compliments from everyone, about how I look and how I dress, but at times when I'm not I get insicure. I know that might sound pathetic but i start feeling really bad and down about everything about me and feel the need to have other say good things about me. Is there anything I can do to lift my confidence and stop me from being the type of person I hate? or is it just a self problem that i have to overcome?
Thanks to taking the time to read this,
sorry im being so immature and stupidd. (link)
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Oh no babe, don't worry.
It's funny how contradictory we can all be...
I mean I love the spotlight...but I'm not self-centered.
You look for compliments not because you don't like yourself but because you want to be sure that other people do too. A lot of people are like that.
The family thing is pretty harsh...I'm sure that you are beautiful and a great person. And when you marry Mr. Right they will be crying.
Talk to a counselor too.
It makes all the difference.
XOXO
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today i was walking into the girls locker room and there was this guy behind me walking into the guys locker room and all of a sudden he started like singing so i turned around to see what he was doing and he was liek.. you like my singing? and i was like.yeahhhh... im really shy so its hard to talk to guys and like i dont know what to say. and then he kept saying stuff to me like come on give me a smile just a little smile and stuff like you like my singing. really random weird and even sounds a little creepy now haha. but like yeah then when i came out i saw him again and he was like come on smile so i was like i am and hes like let me introduce myself im tommy whats ur name so i told him my name and then he shook my hand. it was sooo weird but i didnt know what to do you know? then his friend was there and like laughed at him kinda..so idk if like he actually wanted to talk to me or was just being an idiot and doing that to make fun of me. what do you think he meant by it? by the way im 14/f and a freshman..i think he might\'ve been a junior.. yeah help? thankss. (link)
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Hahaha.
Yeah so he either really wanted to talk to you and was trying to figure out how or maybe his friend liked you but was too shy.
Maybe, he's just a really friendly guy.
I love guys like that but it must have been weird.
Next time you see him start singing ahahhaa...or something...smile at him and ask why isn't smiling.
It's a fun flirting technique...he obviously knows that. Don't be shy...bold is fun lol.
XOXO
~Mimi~
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Im really falling for this guy right now his name is dez. He really listens to me and doesn't ignore me like all the other guys i dated. The only problem is he libes in georgia and i live in washington dc. Im really falling in love with him. What should I do you guys. (link)
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Well I'm sorry to say this but I learned first hand that long-distance relationships don't work...if things are meant to be they will happen...focus on friendship...if you guys get really close in a friend way maybe things will happen. Best of luck.
XOXO
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My friend who i have been friends with since first grade is very flirty and wants to grab my ass. he like said "so i can look but can i touch..." i dont know how to respond to that. i want to be flirty back without saying yes or no. can anyone help pleaseee? (link)
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Ahahhaa okay what you do is just do something flirty randomnly...he'll get the picture, trust me. Start small though.
XOXO
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i THiNK i'VE BECOME ADDiCTED TO WORKiNG OUT. i CAN'T STOP! PLEASE HELP.... (link)
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Addicted?
Well working out is good for you but...you like overdo it?
If you find yourself overworking or anything punish yourself somehow...not like violently but...you know take something away that you like...it's all about self control.
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hey well im a 15/f.. and i don't why but i feel so ugly compared to the other girls at my school... They are lkike so grogeous and guys actually talk to them and stuff... well me i have hair on my face like on my upper lip im always getting made fun of because people think im weird and anorexic because im soo skinny... and i want to get a makeover because im tired of judging me... so should i get a makeover? and don't say no you should just be yourself.. well it doesn't work like that at my school its either your pretty and you fit in or your ugly and everyone hates you... so what should i do? (link)
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Don't overdo the makeover...like...bring out your really good features and still do be yourself please. You don't need a makeover per say...just a change...if you don't like how skinny you are tone up...exercise...be confident too...confidence is sexy...not cocky though...be happy with yourself and everyone else will be happy with you. Best of luck.
XOXO
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so. my friend just got this new bf. and hes amazing, we were chillin one day and i met his friend,at that moment i knew i had to have him.not only is he amazingly gorgeous but hes sweet anf funny and i just cant describe it. he comes from a rough-ish homelife and hes still amazing i see through his "tough guy" act i see him for what he is for who he is. BUT of course he doesnt even think of me in that way, not even close, hes like in love with this other girl and it tears me apart, i reeeeeeeeeeeeeally like him but im cluless as to what im supposed to do, how do i win his heart??????? (link)
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Honestly, you can't win a heart...I learned that and it hurts to know but you have to leave some of this to fate...I know how badly it hurts but if he doesn't like you, you can't make him...be friendly and definatley yourself...be a really good friend and if things end with the other girl he will have somebody to talk to about it...knowing that he can trust you is a really good start. But untill then I'm sorry for the heartache.
XOXO
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I've been going out with this guy about a month now. We like each other very much. Just two days ago he was telling me how I'm the only one for him and how he likes me so much. Yesturday I found that he got drunk three days ago and had sex with some dirty girl from school. He claims that he remembers nothign of it. He apologized many times. I don't really know what i should do. I still like him a lot but he still went too far with that girl. I dont know whether i should forgive him and go back with him, forgive him and just stay friend, or completely shut him out. And it would be weird at school because i see him for every class. He's 17 and I'm fourteen by the way. (link)
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Okay I'm sorry sweetie but he is a jerk.
Cheating is horrible...drunk or not.
The guy I like has a girlfriend who cheated on him like that only not drunk and everyone is so dissappointed he's with her still. Anybody who would cheat would most definatley do it again.
Move on...it really hurts I know but it's the best thing that you can do for yourself...unless you feel you guys REALLY have something.
Sometimes ackward is how it has to be.
Good luck.
XOXO
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I'm only 13 but I want to have sex really bad, is that normal? (link)
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Yes...it's very normal...hormones attack you like the little monsters that they are but it gets better cross my heart.
X's and O's.
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14/f Ok, so for Halloween I'm going as a sexy kitty: black lacy tank top, denim mini skirt, and black knee high boots (they're comfy, but look really cool=] ) with a cat tail and cat ears. so I have a question: should I do any face makeup? (black nose and whiskers) I don't want to look like a little girl, but i want it to look cat-ish. also, if i should, what should i use? thank you! (link)
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Okay do make-up but not like the little girls make-up with all whiskers and stuff. Do eye shadow and add whiskers but...hmmm I don't know it's hard to describe...where sexy make-up with whiskers. No nose though.
X's and O's.
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