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HOWWW???
What is the best way to ask a guy that you REALLY like out? I'm really nervous about him saying no and ruining our friendship. I'm also a lil scared that he'll go telling all his buds and then say no. I've never had a bf and i've never asked a boy out...Should i get one of my friends to ask him if he likes me or if he would ever consider me as a gf or more than just a friend??? We like to talk to each other and stuff like that. And everytime someone mentions that he might like me or he does like me he usualy smiles and turns real red. sooo idk how to ask him out!!! PLEASE HELP!
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Well...just talk to him casually and be like..."So I think you're a really great guy." wait for his reply and if he just says like "Thanks" I wouldn't take it any further. But, If he's like "Well, you're a great girl." or something jump onto the opprotunity.
Remember that you never know unless you try.
Break a leg
XOXO
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Dear Reader,
I really would suggest that you ask him out instead of a friend, because a freind tells the guy that you're too scared to do it on your own and that's not exctally a good thing when it comes down to boyfreinds. If you're friendship is really that good and that strong, and if he says no, the freindship shouldn't change. And most definitly do not, I retype, DO NOT feel awkward. Men are like dogs, the second they sense that you're awkward, they will start being awkward too. And as for his "buds", really, if he goes telling all of them that, that comes off to me as some what of a jerk and really, I dont think that it would happen, but then again, I dont know him. I really hope I helped through my mumbo-jumbo. Please let me know how things turned out! Good luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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Lol, from what you've said from how he asks when someone mentions that, it does sound like he likes you.
I've told many people this, but here it is again:
Things shouldn't feel awkward if you tell a friend how you feel about them. If you're really good friends, it shouldn't. If he does say no, then take it at that and still be friends. You never know, if he does say no, down the road he may see what you truely are and eventually say yes, but he may never do that unless you tell him.
If you're really nervious, you could get a friend to ask for you, but I really think that it is better to ask him out directly. Next time you see him just get him to a quiet place and tell him how you feel. Or...you could also hit it casually then follow up how you feel.
I hope this helps.
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