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Im really falling for him badly...


Question Posted Sunday November 19 2006, 2:08 am

Im really falling for this guy right now his name is dez. He really listens to me and doesn't ignore me like all the other guys i dated. The only problem is he libes in georgia and i live in washington dc. Im really falling in love with him. What should I do you guys.

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Mimicakes answered Tuesday November 21 2006, 2:06 pm:
Well I'm sorry to say this but I learned first hand that long-distance relationships don't work...if things are meant to be they will happen...focus on friendship...if you guys get really close in a friend way maybe things will happen. Best of luck.
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sizzlinmandolin answered Sunday November 19 2006, 3:09 pm:
It could work. If you're not willing to put a LOT of time and work into it though, don't try it. Long distance relationships are hard. It helps a lot if you can see him in person every so often and it can hold together if it's only a temporary separation. For example, you're both 16 and are planning on going to the same college when you get out of high school. That type of thing. People in long distance relationships often have a stronger emotional connection. The problem is, there is no physical contact. It's hard to prove to someone that you love them if you can't even give them a hug. Trust can become an issue to because you have no idea who he's hanging out with and what other girls he might be getting that missing physical component from on the side. I think that you should try it. If it's not working out though, end it as soon as you can. The longer you wait the harder it's going to be. Good luck. :)

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karisue answered Sunday November 19 2006, 12:59 pm:
it depends on how you met this guy & your age.

most long distant relationships are hard to keep, if you think you guys will get to see eachother a lot, then it's okay to like him.

but make sure you know how he feels about you, before you go any further.

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duckieh20lol answered Sunday November 19 2006, 8:23 am:
Dear U,


You have to be careful cause some internet relationships are bad and some are goood. If you really really like this guy. Tell him you feel this way make sure he feels the same. If yes arrange a way to meet in person.Never go alone have your friends to back you up just in case.Plz write back


HAve Fun
P.S: good luck

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Raeden answered Sunday November 19 2006, 7:42 am:
Sometimes, people meet eachother over the internet and fall in love, and sometimes it even turns into a succesful relationship. As they say, true love knows no boundaries. Try to find out if he likes you in this way too, for example, ask him if there's a girl he's into at the moment. If you find out he likes you too, you can take it from there, see if it will last, perhaps arrange that you two can meet during hollidays. If he doesn't, you'll still have a good online friend. If you need to take some distance from him to get over him, by all means do so, and just tell him. He'll understand if you tell him nicely. Good luck.

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