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not so pretty...
hey well im a 15/f.. and i don't why but i feel so ugly compared to the other girls at my school... They are lkike so grogeous and guys actually talk to them and stuff... well me i have hair on my face like on my upper lip im always getting made fun of because people think im weird and anorexic because im soo skinny... and i want to get a makeover because im tired of judging me... so should i get a makeover? and don't say no you should just be yourself.. well it doesn't work like that at my school its either your pretty and you fit in or your ugly and everyone hates you... so what should i do?
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Don't overdo the makeover...like...bring out your really good features and still do be yourself please. You don't need a makeover per say...just a change...if you don't like how skinny you are tone up...exercise...be confident too...confidence is sexy...not cocky though...be happy with yourself and everyone else will be happy with you. Best of luck.
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The main tip is to be yourself. About the upper lip hair thing, just use Nair Facial Hair Remover. Wear some clear lipgloss, paint your nails, paint your toenails, maybe even get a new haircut. People should appreciate you for who you are. Nobody can change you. Come up with some cool outfit ideas. IDK, those are some thoughts. Hopefully I helped. :]
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I would tell you to be yourself && add some confidence to your appearance, but you won't take that for an answer, so here it goes. Don't do anything too drastic, if you're self-conscious about the hair on your face, go get it waxed. Those girls at your school wouldn't be half as pretty as they are if they didn't know and think they were gorgeous. You don't have to believe me, but it's true. I used to have a really low self-esteem and I wondered why guys wouldn't talk to me. You just have to be more confident and feel better about yourself. If you say you're ugly, that's an ugly personality trait and therefore you are somewhat ugly. But if you wake up every morning, put on some makeup and a cute outfit and say to yourself "Damn, I look good," people are going to notice. If you don't believe me, try it. You have nothing to lose. Let me know how things work out for you. Good luck! -Angel
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I think a makeover would be perfect for you. It's fine to want to look good and be noticed. I'm going to copy part of my answer to a question that was asked awhile ago. It definitely applies to you too. Remember that because guys talk to certain girls doesn't make them better than other girls. A lot of the time guys will flirt with and talk with girls that they think are easy. They want to get flirted at back and maybe get a little action. You don't want to make that impression on people.
Anyways, this is why a makeover would be really good for you:
If people notice you change on the outside they'll compliment you, hopefully, making a change on the inside. You'll realize that people do think you're attractive, they just don't feel the need to say it when they see no reason to. Any outward changes you make will bring compliments, but realistically, you're not really going to look that much different. After awhile, you will develop good self-esteem and not rely on your perceived outside appearance for the feeling that you are beautiful. People are complimenting you, not your change. The change just made them think about it for a minute. Eventually, you won't even think about how you look. You'll know you look good. I know this sounds totally cliche, but everyone is beautiful. You just have to find your beauty for yourself. One more tip: try not to stare at yourself in the mirror so much. Nobody judges you as much as you judge yourself. Good luck! :)
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I bet you arent ugly. But i think that you should get a makeover or maybe a new hair for a new look. and i know that the whole "be yourself" thing DOES NOTwork. you should let people know your pretty side. maybe put some eyeliner on and put a headband on your head. or change some of your clothing style. i had the same problem. I thought i was the ugliest person and i was uncomfortable of myself and felt so "out" comapred to the other girls. i ahted looking into the mirror. One day i tried to go for a new look. put an eyeliner on. and did other stuff. and now i dont think im ugly anymore. I dont think im super pretty but i have more confidence than before. By changing your look, you might feel uncomfortable at first, but it will show the world that you have a prettier side. Good LucK!!!
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I feel your pain, honey biscuit! When I was in school I had ENORMOUS bucked teeth! I finally saved up enough money for a dentist's trip. I got one of them pulled out and the other one sanded down. I always felt ugly compared to the pretty girls at my school. If you want to get a makeover, DO IT! Do't let it change your personality but if you really think that you can buy people's friendship with a makeover, try it. It sure worked for me.
-GRANDMA BETTY LOUISxoxoxoxoxoxox
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