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bisexuality
ive been bisexual for as long as i can remeber and i reciantly moved adn ive been wonderin if i should tell my friends that im bi, but i really dont want them to be like omg your bi im not talkin to you any more. so whats your opinion for chics who are bi? do ya like em or hate em, what..... thx in advance
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Well one of my best friends is bi and i've known her for a year and she told me a few weeks ago it shocked me but i got over it. If they are really your freinds they will get over it and just see you for you.
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Well I have a friend who is bi so it doesn't really bother me. She only told a few of her closest friends because she had a fear of being accepted or people thinking of her badly. So if I were you, I would only tell the new friends that you totally trust and let them know you do not want others to know until you feel ready to tell them. Most people are more accepting of girls being bi, especially after the shows airing on TV like Shot of Love with Tila Tequila, so no worries. If they are your real friends they will accept you for who you are.
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i think you should tell your friends that you bi...
they have the right to know and if their not going to tlak to you because of that then they were never your real friends at all but if they really are your friends then they will except that fact and you guys will move on with your friendship.
whether or not you tell your friends, if you are going to tell them slowily slip it into the conversation dont flat out tell them because it could make things awkward
i personally dont mind if somebody's bi or not its not important to me. what truely matters is their personality.
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I am not one to judge on one's race or sexual preference. I am fine with anyone. Honesty is key to any relationship including friendship and since you express the want to tell them you should. If they don't accept you for who you are, then they weren't true friends to begin with and you are far better off without them. Good luck. If you need support or anything else I'm here.
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Great advice previously given, so I will only add this. Coming out to reveal any private fact about oneself publicly should be done when one is secure in the truth of that fact enough to stand alone, ready to face any criticism with a mature frame of mind and intelligently, and finally you need to remember that human beings are constantly becoming who they are. We are not born who we are exactly...we are born with potentials and choices and limitations and we develop beyond definitions or even expectations when determined enough to defy. Being bisexual is for some a permanent thing and for others an experiment in their sexual development...whatever You decide it is, don't let anyone else define it for You. The consequences of keeping your identity to yourself may be wise in certain company, but detrimental to yourself should you fear coming out ever to anyone. This is about you being authentic, which is difficult and scary for most people to be themselves. Your inner confidence will make all the difference.
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Okay so you have friends and you dont know if you should tell them if your bi or not. Well out of all honestly. Some people tend to get a little bit freaked out by the whole bisexual thing. Not judgung you at all. I know a couple of bi people and there cool people. I also know when they didnt know if they should tell our other friends ( i kinda knew before everyone else) they decided this is a good time to see who your true friends really are. Dont hide who you are because your afraid some people wont like you. As im sure you probly already know there are those people out there who are "homophobic" and who discriminate against busexuals and homosexuals. You are who you are and so be it. If they dont like it screw them. How many other people are out there. And if there your true friends or just your friends theyl like you for who you are. I think thats your best bet. Just coming out with your friends and being who you are. Hold you head up high and dont let people put you down for who you are. And be the best person you can be. Goodluck with everything i hope you make the right choice. You deserve the best. Ok im done =)
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tell them if you like and if you do its a good way to find out whos your friend or not/ a recent friend of mines told me she was bi & everyone she told took it well it was kind of wierd at first but i got used to it
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<3 Francheska.
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It's your decesion if you want to tell them or not. If you feel comfortable enough to tell them I think you should. Real friends would accept your lifestyle not be like "omg you're bi don't talk to me".
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